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Forgiven and Forgiving: A Prayer for us to also Forgive, to Love Like Jesus. Matthew 18:21-35

Matthew 18:21-35 Easy-to-Read Version

A Story About Forgiveness

21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, when someone[a] won’t stop doing wrong to me, how many times must I forgive them? Seven times?”

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, you must forgive them more than seven times. You must continue to forgive them even if they do wrong to you seventy-seven times.[b]

23 “So God’s kingdom is like a king who decided to collect the money his servants owed him. 24 The king began to collect his money. One servant owed him several thousand pounds[c] of silver. 25 He was not able to pay the money to his master, the king. So the master ordered that he and everything he owned be sold, even his wife and children. The money would be used to pay the king what the servant owed.

26 “But the servant fell on his knees and begged, ‘Be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe.’ 27 The master felt sorry for him. So he told the servant he did not have to pay. He let him go free.

28 “Later, that same servant found another servant who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him around the neck and said, ‘Pay me the money you owe me!’

29 “The other servant fell on his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe.’

30 “But the first servant refused to be patient. He told the judge that the other servant owed him money, and that servant was put in jail until he could pay everything he owed. 31 All the other servants saw what happened. They felt very sorry for the man. So they went and told their master everything that happened.

32 “Then the master called his servant in and said, ‘You evil servant. You begged me to forgive your debt, and I said you did not have to pay anything! 33 So you should have given that other man who serves with you the same mercy I gave you.’ 34 The master was very angry, so he put the servant in jail to be punished. And he had to stay in jail until he could pay everything he owed.

35 “This king did the same as my heavenly Father will do to you. You must forgive your brother or sister with all your heart, or my heavenly Father will not forgive you.”

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

In a matter of days, when Good Friday is once again placed before Christians, Jesus, mere minutes from a gruesome and unjust death, will utter the words;

Luke 23:33-34 New American Standard Bible 1995

The Crucifixion

33 When they came to the place called [a]The Skull, there they crucified Him and the criminals, one on the right and the other on the left. 34 [b]But Jesus was saying, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing.” And they cast lots, dividing up His garments among themselves.

“Father, (in Heaven) forgive them; for they know not what they are doing.”

And I begin to obsess all over again about the word and the task: “forgive”

Along with all of that obsession, I again turn to those familiar bible passages.

When I read Jesus’ parable of the unforgiving servant, my blood begins to boil.

I think, “How ungrateful, mean, and greedy this man is. There isn’t a single kind bone in his body!”

Here was a man who owed more money than he could ever repay.

But after he was so graciously forgiven of his huge debt by the King, he turned around and unjustly punished another man for owing him just a small amount.

The forgiven man had received an inconceivable measure of mercy, but he did not reciprocate, did not himself show one ounce of mercy to the other man.

It is not wrong to be angry about this.

In fact, this is the response Jesus is looking for.

But we must not stop there.

Jesus designed this story to help us think and act faithfully as children of God.

How should we respond to the kindness God has shown us? God has forgiven our huge debt of sin; will we do the same for others who have sinned against us?

It is easy for us to ask for God’s forgiveness and yet carry grudges and ill will toward others.

It is easy to remember and resent what others have said and done against us.

But if we accept God’s forgiveness and yet fail to forgive others, we are no different from the ungrateful man in Jesus’ parable.

Jesus teaches us to forgive and to keep forgiving so that we can’t remember how many times we have forgiven.

When we walk with the Spirit, we are changed.

God’s kindness begins to flow from us to others.

A Prayer to Forgive and Love Like Jesus 

Matthew 18:21-22 New American Standard Bible 1995

Forgiveness

21 Then Peter came and said to Him, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus *said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.

Granting forgiveness can be complex and hard to give and receive, especially when it’s a repeated offense, when it is closely attached to betrayal and you’re left holding the shattered pieces of a broken heart filled with so much pain.

Yet, in the upside-down gospel of Jesus Christ, its exactly what we’re called to do – forgive, forgive the unforgivable, not once, but time, time and time again.

It sounds so easy, right? Yet, as you most likely know, forgiveness comes with an acknowledgment that needs to be made from our heads to our hearts. That’s because forgiveness can be messy and intertwined with so many deep emotions.

When Peter approached Jesus with the question of how many times he should be forgiving his brother, it was more than likely an honest, sincere question.

A question to determine the length of mercy.

Maybe he was harboring pain from a past hurt or trying to decipher and grasp the unparalleled meaning of the forgiveness Jesus taught in the sermon on the mount (Matthew 6:14-15). 

Matthew 6:14-15 New American Standard Bible 1995

14 For if you forgive [a]others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive [b]others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions.

Either way, Jesus’ answer must have sent shockwaves through Peter’s soul.

After all, the Jewish practice was to forgive someone three times for the same offense (Amos 2:6).

So, upon hearing seventy-seven times, which could be construed to mean “70 times 7,” equating to 490, that must have sounded absolutely absurd!

Peter’s heart must have sunk, thinking that type of forgiveness is impossible.

Yet, that was exactly the point Jesus was driving home!

Jesus knows forgiveness isn’t easy and that it is impossible to do on our own.

This is why He modeled throughout His life how to forgive and shared the importance of giving and receiving this gift.

Jesus commands us to pray for our enemies and those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44-45), asking God to help us, all while going to Him again and again until we gain the peace that surpasses understanding.

Matthew 5:44-45 New American Standard Bible 1995

44 But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,  45 so that you may [a]be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.

The single most profound example Jesus gave us was on His final day, as Roman soldiers mocked, scourged, and nailed Him to the cross, Jesus prayed for God to forgive them (Luke 23:34) for they knew not what they were doing.

Dear friend, beloved reader, the principle of forgiveness isn’t measured by our emotions or a number, but rather it is to be measured by the grace and mercy in which we receive from God, which is endless.

Real forgiveness, authentic forgiveness takes time to bestow and can only take place with God’s help, allowing Him to open our minds and soften our hearts.

Is there someone to whom you need to grant the gift of forgiveness?

Then lift your heart to Him, your Father in Heaven, today, and seek His help.

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Kind and gracious and merciful Father, how can we even begin to thank you for the wonders of Your love? The act of grace and mercy that You so selflessly displayed on the cross never ceases to amaze us. As we come into a holiday that marks both grief and hope with the solemn actions of Good Friday to the victory we can reclaim in Your resurrection, please posture our hearts to give grace through forgiveness. We ask that You help us be mindful this time of year of the Truth found in Your Word that Your love, mercy, and grace forgave us first. We are so very thankful for that. Help us receive that forgiveness You so graciously give and extend that to others as we yearn to follow Your loving example. Please soften our hearts to give and receive this most precious gift of forgiveness. Lord, I ask that You please come into my heart and help me personally forgive the person who continually floods my mind. I need Your help. I need Your mercy and grace. I need You to remind me that You forgave me and so I must forgive them. Help me let go of the hurt, the pain, the betrayal, and the shame. Help me let it go and turn it all over to You. Please cleanse my heart and soul of any unrighteousness, bitterness, or resentment. I earnestly seek Your peace. Amen

Psalm 32 New American Standard Bible 1995

Blessedness of Forgiveness and of Trust in God.

A Psalm of David. A [a]Maskil.

32 How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven,
Whose sin is covered!
2 How blessed is the man to whom the Lord does not impute iniquity,
And in whose spirit there is no deceit!

3 When I kept silent about my sin, my [b]body wasted away
Through my [c]groaning all day long.
4 For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me;
My [d]vitality was drained away as with the fever heat of summer. [e]Selah.
5 I acknowledged my sin to You,
And my iniquity I did not hide;
I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord”;
And You forgave the [f]guilt of my sin. Selah.
6 Therefore, let everyone who is godly pray to You [g]in a time when You may be found;
Surely in a flood of great waters they will not reach him.
7 You are my hiding place; You preserve me from trouble;
You surround me with [h]songs of deliverance. Selah.

8 I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go;
I will counsel you with My eye upon you.
9 Do not be as the horse or as the mule which have no understanding,
Whose trappings include bit and bridle to hold them in check,
Otherwise they will not come near to you.
10 Many are the sorrows of the wicked,
But he who trusts in the Lord, lovingkindness shall surround him.
11 Be glad in the Lord and rejoice, you righteous ones;
And shout for joy, all you who are upright in heart.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

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The man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God. Genesis 3:8-11

Genesis 3:8-11 New American Standard Bible 1995

8 They heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the [a]cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. 9 Then the Lord God called to the man, and said to him, “Where are you?” 10 He said, “I heard the sound of You in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid myself.” 11 And He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?”

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

Across ethnic, linguistic, and geographical boundaries, children and even adults of all ages everywhere continue to enjoy the fun of playing hide-and-seek.

It is a universal and innocent game.

But the first game of hide-and-seek in this world was neither fun nor innocent.

It was something deadly serious, it came with serious and severe consequences.

After Adam and Eve’s disobedience in the garden, they hid from each other behind fig leaves and from their Creator behind the trees of the garden.

They unsuccessfully attempted histories very first cover-up—and God came walking in the garden, seeking them with a simple question: “Where are you?”

This revealing question turns on its head the common assumption that man is naturally looking for God, who is hiding somewhere in or beyond the universe.

Instead, we discover the opposite: we are the ones who are hiding, whose first, most natural inclination is to hide and God is the one who comes seeking.

The question may seem like a strange one for God to ask these first humans.

After all, doesn’t God know everything already?

But God asked where Adam and Eve were not so He could gain new information but because He wanted to help them come to grips, understand their situation.

God came to draw them out more than to drive them out.

As much as it is possible for our finite thought processes, imagine the many ways God could, should have reacted in response to Adam and Eve’s rebellion.

If He had responded strictly in judgment, He could have instantaneously brought about the sentence of death He had warned them of (Genesis 2:16-17).

But it is in God’s nature always to have mercy; so He came instead with a single question.

This is the first glimpse of God’s grace after humanity turned their backs on Him.

God did not immediately give them what they justly deserved; rather, out of His immense kindness, instead He granted what was not deserved: an opportunity to respond with above board honesty, with integrity and in truth and to return.

That is not what happened here – instead they responded with the blame game.

We immediately hide behind our excuses, none of us would feel comfortable if those closest to us could see all of our deepest thoughts and previous actions.

We may hide the truth from each other, and perhaps even from ourselves.

But to hide from God is futile.

There is simply no way to hide and nowhere to shift the blame to.

Psalm 139:1-12 New American Standard Bible 1995

God’s Omnipresence and Omniscience.

For the choir director. A Psalm of David.

139 O Lord, You have searched me and known me.
2 You know [a]when I sit down and [b]when I rise up;
You understand my thought from afar.
3 You [c]scrutinize my [d]path and my lying down,
And are intimately acquainted with all my ways.
4 [e]Even before there is a word on my tongue,
Behold, O Lord, You know it all.
5 You have enclosed me behind and before,
And laid Your hand upon me.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
It is too high, I cannot attain to it.

7 Where can I go from Your Spirit?
Or where can I flee from Your presence?
8 If I ascend to heaven, You are there;
If I make my bed in [f]Sheol, behold, You are there.
9 If I take the wings of the dawn,
If I dwell in the remotest part of the sea,
10 Even there Your hand will lead me,
And Your right hand will lay hold of me.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will [g]overwhelm me,
And the light around me will be night,”
12 Even the darkness is not dark [h]to You,
And the night is as bright as the day.
Darkness and light are alike to You.

We cannot hide our thoughts, we cannot hide ourselves from God -we must not believe the lie that God won’t see the “little” sins we keep hidden from others.

He sees.

Ultimately, He sees into our souls and knows exactly what we have done and where we stand.

1 Samuel 16:6-8 New American Standard Bible 1995

6 When they entered, he looked at Eliab and thought, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is before Him.” 7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for [a]God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 8 Then Jesse called Abinadab and made him pass before Samuel. And he said, “The Lord has not chosen this one either.”

Wonderfully, we do not need to pretend that we can hide.

He comes to us in mercy, not in judgment, for

“God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him” (John 3:17).

Are you burdened by some besetting sin or secret shame?

Are you seeking to hide from God what you have been hiding from others?

There’s never been a better time to stop hiding from Him. Step into the light.

Psalm 32 New American Standard Bible 1995

Blessedness of Forgiveness and of Trust in God.

A Psalm of David. A [a]Maskil.

32 How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven,
Whose sin is covered!
2 How blessed is the man to whom the Lord does not impute iniquity,
And in whose spirit there is no deceit!

3 When I kept silent about my sin, my [b]body wasted away
Through my [c]groaning all day long.
4 For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me;
My [d]vitality was drained away as with the fever heat of summer. [e]Selah.
5 I acknowledged my sin to You,
And my iniquity I did not hide;
I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord”;
And You forgave the [f]guilt of my sin. Selah.
6 Therefore, let everyone who is godly pray to You [g]in a time when You may be found;
Surely in a flood of great waters they will not reach him.
7 You are my hiding place; You preserve me from trouble;
You surround me with [h]songs of deliverance. Selah.

8 I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go;
I will counsel you with My eye upon you.
9 Do not be as the horse or as the mule which have no understanding,
Whose trappings include bit and bridle to hold them in check,
Otherwise they will not come near to you.
10 Many are the sorrows of the wicked,
But he who trusts in the Lord, lovingkindness shall surround him.
11 Be glad in the Lord and rejoice, you righteous ones;
And shout for joy, all you who are upright in heart.

Uncover what cannot remain hidden before Him—so that He might cover it with His blood and so that you might know you are both known and forgiven.

Psalm 32:1-2 Easy-to-Read Version

A maskil of David.

32 It is a great blessing
    when people are forgiven for the wrongs they have done,
    when their sins are erased.[a]
2 It is a great blessing
    when the Lord says they are not guilty,
    when they don’t try to hide their sins.

How genuinely blessed did you feel yesterday?

How genuinely blessed do you feel today?

How confident are you that you will feel genuinely blessed tomorrow?

Psalm 139:23-24 Easy-to-Read Version

23 God, examine me and know my mind.
    Test me and know all my worries.
24 Make sure that I am not going the wrong way.[a]
    Lead me on the path that has always been right.[b]

He is a compassionate kind and saving God who desires a relationship with us.

How much do you genuinely believe this?

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Psalm 103 New American Standard Bible 1995

Praise for the Lord’s Mercies.

A Psalm of David.

103 Bless the Lord, O my soul,
And all that is within me, bless His holy name.
2 Bless the Lord, O my soul,
And forget none of His benefits;
3 Who pardons all your iniquities,
Who heals all your diseases;
4 Who redeems your life from the pit,
Who crowns you with lovingkindness and compassion;
5 Who satisfies your [a]years with good things,
So that your youth is renewed like the eagle.

6 The Lord performs [b]righteous deeds
And judgments for all who are oppressed.
7 He made known His ways to Moses,
His acts to the sons of Israel.
8 The Lord is compassionate and gracious,
Slow to anger and abounding in lovingkindness.
9 He will not always strive with us,
Nor will He keep His anger forever.
10 He has not dealt with us according to our sins,
Nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.
11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
So great is His lovingkindness toward those who [c]fear Him.
12 As far as the east is from the west,
So far has He removed our transgressions from us.
13 Just as a father has compassion on his children,
So the Lord has compassion on those who [d]fear Him.
14 For He Himself knows [e]our frame;
He is mindful that we are but dust.

15 As for man, his days are like grass;
As a flower of the field, so he flourishes.
16 When the wind has passed over it, it is no more,
And its place acknowledges it no longer.
17 But the lovingkindness of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting on those who [f]fear Him,
And His [g]righteousness to children’s children,
18 To those who keep His covenant
And remember His precepts to do them.

19 The Lord has established His throne in the heavens,
And His [h]sovereignty rules over [i]all.
20 Bless the Lord, you His angels,
Mighty in strength, who perform His word,
Obeying the voice of His word!
21 Bless the Lord, all you His hosts,
You who serve Him, doing His will.
22 Bless the Lord, all you works of His,
In all places of His dominion;
Bless the Lord, O my soul!

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

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Our Lenten Journey: I Believe what is meant for Evil God turns it into Good. Genesis 50:20-21

Genesis 50:15-21 New American Standard Bible 1995

15 When Joseph’s brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, “What if Joseph bears a grudge against us and pays us back in full for all the wrong which we did to him!” 16 So they [a]sent a message to Joseph, saying, “Your father charged before he died, saying, 17 ‘Thus you shall say to Joseph, “Please forgive, I beg you, the transgression of your brothers and their sin, for they did you wrong.”’ And now, please forgive the transgression of the servants of the God of your father.” And Joseph wept when they spoke to him. 18 Then his brothers also came and fell down before him and said, “Behold, we are your servants.” 19  But Joseph said to them, “Do not be afraid, for am I in God’s place? 20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about [b]this present result, to preserve many people alive. 21 So therefore, do not be afraid; I will provide for you and your little ones.” So he comforted them and spoke [c]kindly to them.

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

I am no stranger to conflict.

But a conflict with a friend was fiercer than any other I had experienced before.

Backbiting words and accusations sought to ruin my reputation.

It was as if someone had stabbed me in the back and was twisting the knife deeper and deeper.

Saddened and greatly angered, I cried out to God, “Why is this happening to me? Why am I being treated this way?” But all I got in return, was His silence. 

One day, a couple of years later at a former colleagues funeral I ran into the friend who had so badly mistreated me.

All the anger and sadness flooded my mind and heart once again.

I knew I couldn’t carry the anger around anymore.

Everything in me wanted to retaliate a thousand fold to seek any necessary recompense for what I had suffered at that persons hands.

But I knew that it was against what Jesus would call me to do.

I knew I had to do something in response, but what?

I quietly walked up beside him in the church and I blessed him with a hand of encouragement, in other words, I reached out and I shook his hand.

I looked him square in the eye, and spoke kind words the next time I saw him.

An immensely hurtful situation that seemed as though Satan would emerge victorious turned out to give God glory instead. 

Out of jealousy, Joseph’s brothers had sought to grievously harm him.

His brothers’ jealousy compelled them to retaliate against Joseph.

When Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery, Joseph had every right to be angry.

Once he became Prime Minister many years later, he could have held on to that grudge.

He could have made his family pay for all the horrible things they had done to him.

But instead, he used his power for good instead of for evil.

He chose forgiveness rather than retaliation and kindness rather than evil. 

Have you ever been hurt by people you love?

Have you ever had a friend betray your trust?

Have you ever had a family member betray your confidence?

In these transformational moments when our human emotions want us to act in the worst kind of retaliation, we, with the help of the Holy Spirit, can act in ways that show unusual kindness to the same people who do not deserve it.

God is a just God.

Only he can truly pay back the evil that someone has done.

As much as it feels as though it should be our responsibility to achieve justice, the reality is only a righteous God can get vengeance and pay back evil for evil.  

Ephesians 4:30-32 New American Standard Bible 1995

30 Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, [a]by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven [b] you.

As Christians, we are called to act with the grace and forgiveness toward others that Christ has given to us.

Luke 23:34 New American Standard Bible 1995

34 [a]But Jesus was saying, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing.” And they cast lots, dividing up His garments among themselves.

When we understand the harsh reality of our sinfulness, we realize we truly don’t deserve God’s grace and mercy.

Yet, Jesus gives his grace and mercy to everyone, regardless of how horrible their deeds were.

His grace is widespread and covers a multitude of sins.

1 Peter 4:7-10 New American Standard Bible 1995

7 The end of all things [a]is near; therefore, be of sound judgment and sober spirit for the purpose of [b]prayer. 8 Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins. 9 Be hospitable to one another without complaint. 10 As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.

God wants us to act with the same grace and mercy that Jesus gave even to the people who betrayed him the most.

It is by these loving acts of kindness in the face of persecution that the world will know who Jesus truly is.

Romans 5:8-10 New American Standard Bible 1995

8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Much more then, having now been justified [a]by His blood, we shall be saved from the wrath of God through Him. 10 For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, how much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved [b]by His life.

They will see who he is through our selfless example.

Vengeance and justice are strictly up to God, not us. 

Joseph chose not to use his power for retaliation yet showed his brothers kindness because of the forgiveness and love that God had given him.

He, in turn, helped his family, as well as the whole nation, survive a famine. In what ways can you demonstrate grace, mercy, in the face of highest betrayal?

God’s Expressed Purpose: Saving Many Lives

Genesis 50:20-21 New American Standard Bible 1995

20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about [a]this present result, to preserve many people alive. 21 So therefore, do not be afraid; I will provide for you and your little ones.” So he comforted them and spoke [b]kindly to them.

The Body of Christ, the church, is the carrier of the story of God and how God is creating a new people to make up a community of grace.

There are many twists and turns, both gentle and severe, in our life’s story.

There are twists and turns in the story, as we can see in the life of Joseph, for example.

A highly favored son gets sold into slavery by his jealous ­brothers.

When it seems like things might get better for Joseph, something else happens and he lands in prison with no hope of release.

Then God gives Joseph the ability to interpret dreams to bring about not only his release but also the saving of his family and many others from famine. (See Genesis 37-49.)

Genesis 50 brings us to the moment when Joseph’s father, Jacob, has died, and the ­brothers of Joseph worry that he might punish them.

What will Joseph do now as payback for all the wrong they had done to him?

Joseph looks beyond their actions to the ultimate purpose of God.

God desires to save people.

God desires to use people like Joseph—and us—to bring about a new day and provide new life for his people.

In this story we see a picture of how God is at work in the twists and turns of life—and he is still at work in our lives today!

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Psalm 103 New American Standard Bible 1995

Praise for the Lord’s Mercies.

A Psalm of David.

103 Bless the Lord, O my soul,
And all that is within me, bless His holy name.
2 Bless the Lord, O my soul,
And forget none of His benefits;
3 Who pardons all your iniquities,
Who heals all your diseases;
4 Who redeems your life from the pit,
Who crowns you with lovingkindness and compassion;
5 Who satisfies your [a]years with good things,
So that your youth is renewed like the eagle.

6 The Lord performs [b]righteous deeds
And judgments for all who are oppressed.
7 He made known His ways to Moses,
His acts to the sons of Israel.
8 The Lord is compassionate and gracious,
Slow to anger and abounding in lovingkindness.
9 He will not always strive with us,
Nor will He keep His anger forever.
10 He has not dealt with us according to our sins,
Nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.
11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
So great is His lovingkindness toward those who [c]fear Him.
12 As far as the east is from the west,
So far has He removed our transgressions from us.
13 Just as a father has compassion on his children,
So the Lord has compassion on those who [d]fear Him.
14 For He Himself knows [e]our frame;
He is mindful that we are but dust.

15 As for man, his days are like grass;
As a flower of the field, so he flourishes.
16 When the wind has passed over it, it is no more,
And its place acknowledges it no longer.
17 But the lovingkindness of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting on those who [f]fear Him,
And His [g]righteousness to children’s children,
18 To those who keep His covenant
And remember His precepts to do them.

19 The Lord has established His throne in the heavens,
And His [h]sovereignty rules over [i]all.
20 Bless the Lord, you His angels,
Mighty in strength, who perform His word,
Obeying the voice of His word!
21 Bless the Lord, all you His hosts,
You who serve Him, doing His will.
22 Bless the Lord, all you works of His,
In all places of His dominion;
Bless the Lord, O my soul!

God of grace and forgiveness, help us to look beyond our hurts and troubles to see that you are at work in our lives too—day in and day out. In Jesus’ name we pray.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

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Advent Reflection: Tis the Season for Us To Cling Tightly to What is Good. Romans 12:9-13

Romans 12:9-13 English Standard Version

Marks of the True Christian

9 Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. 10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. 11 Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit,[a] serve the Lord. 12 Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. 13 Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

Tis the season for Good News!

Tis the season for glad tidings – for inexpressible indescribable heights of joy!

Unless, for you – it is not!

Tis the season also for inexpressible, indescribable depths of greatest sadness.

Such a depth of sadness will soon teach us to cling to what is good for survival.

In the ugly cry moments that always seem to arise in our lives, we can all cling, hold tightly to Christ Jesus, and know He absolutely understands how we feel.

Paul’s words in the verses above are often the very reason we are clinging as we cry, holding tightly to the comfort Christ Jesus provides. 

“Don’t just pretend to love others,” he wrote to the Romans, “really love them.” 

As iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), when we then take Paul’s words to heart, when we really give “tough” love unto others, it’s bound to get painful at times.

Paul wrote earlier in his letter to the Roman church, “we all fall short of the glory of God.” (Romans 3:23) 

We are all flawed human beings-but we are flawed human beings covenanted by an absolutely Holy God to imitate Him, love each other as God first loved us.

Clinging to His Love, Living in Harmony Is Necessary

Wise believers acknowledge when Jesus said, “A new command I give you: Love one another” (John 13:34-35), this was not simply a suggestion for getting along.

So too, the Bible’s commands us as to how we each treat one another shouldn’t be considered minimally optional – that’s not the nature of God’s commands.

As Christ’s followers, we must cling to the Word of God, cling to the life Jesus revealed to us throughout His Gospels, cling to His miracles, remember exactly how our very relationship with God affects our relationships with each other.

When we pray, “Our Father,” we acknowledge before God, our Father, Creator of heaven and earth, we are part of a family that includes sisters and brothers.

We are called to cling to the example set by Jesus – live in harmony together.

Today’s reading mentions specific ways of doing so, such as honoring one another above ourselves, holding tightly to what is good, praying faithfully, sharing with people in need, showing hospitality, and our not being proud.

When believers cling to harmony, live in harmony, expressing their love for one another by sharing tears of sadness in times of sorrow, expanding their joy by celebrating together, they become appealing witnesses to their hope in Christ.

When a family member or friend or a stranger or a coworker observes, “It’s amazing how you guys love each other,” the cause of Christ moves forward.

John 13:34-35 Easy-to-Read Version

34 “I give you a new command: Love each other. You must love each other just as I loved you. 35 All people will know that you are my followers if you love each other.”

Jesus went even further when He was alone with His Father, taught this when he prayed that all believers “may be one” “may be brought to complete unity.”

Then, ”He prayed unto the Father, “the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me” (John 17:22-23).

John 17:22-23 Easy-to-Read Version

22 I have given them the glory that you gave me. I gave them this glory so that they can be one, just as you and I are one. 23 I will be in them, and you will be in me. So they will be completely one. Then the world will know that you sent me and that you loved them just as you loved me.

Now Comes the Hard Part – Actually Clinging to God!

Deuteronomy 31:6 says, “So be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the LORD your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.” Deuteronomy 31:6 NLT

Joshua was about to take over for Moses who had just died, and God’s people were the most fickle and finicky to lead.

Long years with Moses had taught Joshua – always rebelling and losing faith.

The Lord faithfully clung to Joshua, encouraging him in his coming conquests.

The Lord is faithful to encourage us today, too. When life gets hard, and we find ourselves clinging …turn to the only One who can mend the cracks in our hearts.

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Father, 

Praise You for the way You faithfully place people around us. When the hurt is so bad, and the fear of connecting with others is paralyzing, please remind us who we are in Christ Jesus. More than conquerors, we are Your children, equip us with hearts full of encouragement. Fill us with the love we need to cling to You, heal and move forward and pour out and spill onto others who are discouraged and in need of a faith-filled friend. Help us to be encouraged by the same words Moses encouraged Joshua with:

Deuteronomy 31:7-8 Easy-to-Read Version

7 Then Moses called Joshua. All the Israelites watched while Moses said to Joshua, “Be strong and brave. You will lead these people into the land that the Lord promised to give to their ancestors. You will help the Israelites take that land and divide it among them. 8 The Lord will lead you. He himself is with you. He will not fail you or leave you. Don’t worry. Don’t be afraid!”

Intersecting Faith and Life:

There is no one person we can guarantee will love us perfectly, but You do, Father. Help us to gain a clear understanding of who we are in Christ, and allow others grace. Help us to see the good in each of us, created in Your image. Father, when we find ourselves clinging too tightly to ourselves, it can cause us to fear. Remind us in those moments, tis always the good season You have placed people in our lives to encourage and love us, even at times when we’re having trouble loving ourselves. 

Father of all forgiveness, mercy grace and compassion, when our hurts are too big to think of or talk about, we know the Holy Spirit takes them to you in prayer, and You meet us right where we are at. We confess our disobedient tendency to quit and run on people, God. It’s hard to cling to You alone, and You don’t shame or blame us for our feelings of fear. But help us to stick it out more, God. To stay with You as You stay with us, to stay with people, and learn the remarkable relationships which grow out from clinging to Your ageless example of forgiveness, mercy, grace, and compassion.

Mature us to be strong and courageous and to cling to the good. Allow us each to see people the way You do, Father, fearfully and wonderfully made. Father, we want to cling to You and we want to live with others in such a way that shows we are in a life-giving relationship with you. Grant us your Spirit to do so. In Jesus’ Name,

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

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