
1 Kings 3:4-14 New International Version
4 The king went to Gibeon to offer sacrifices, for that was the most important high place, and Solomon offered a thousand burnt offerings on that altar. 5 At Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon during the night in a dream, and God said, “Ask for whatever you want me to give you.”
6 Solomon answered, “You have shown great kindness to your servant, my father David, because he was faithful to you and righteous and upright in heart. You have continued this great kindness to him and have given him a son to sit on his throne this very day.
7 “Now, Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father David. But I am only a little child and do not know how to carry out my duties. 8 Your servant is here among the people you have chosen, a great people, too numerous to count or number. 9 So give your servant a discerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. For who is able to govern this great people of yours?”
10 The Lord was pleased that Solomon had asked for this. 11 So God said to him, “Since you have asked for this and not for long life or wealth for yourself, nor have asked for the death of your enemies but for discernment in administering justice, 12 I will do what you have asked. I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there will never have been anyone like you, nor will there ever be. 13 Moreover, I will give you what you have not asked for—both wealth and honor—so that in your lifetime you will have no equal among kings. 14 And if you walk in obedience to me and keep my decrees and commands as David your father did, I will give you a long life.”
The Word of God for the Children of God.
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.
Grow the Church or give God all the glory and satisfy the needs and the wants of my tiny congregation and close the church and transfer the deed onto another younger growing church with significant demographics in our neighborhood?
So, many was the occasion which I just sat there next to their altar, looking up at the eternal light the church has had hanging there since its inception 1956.
I was praying, reading Scripture, twisting my hands, my stomach in knots, feeling intense pressure to make a forward thinking decision for which I had literally no education or experience or wisdom of the ages for me to make.
This small little church with only seven ladies in the congregation – needed a Pastor except thy literally had no funds from which to compensate them from.
I have no degrees in Ministry or Theology or any related discipline to know just how I was going to proceed. Usually, I am a quick on my feet thinker. I pride myself on my decisiveness. Yet, in this case, I struggled with moving forward when I read both the best options and the final outcomes appeared beneficial.
I knew what my supervisors wanted me to do with the church – be done with it, let it disappear, let it be forgotten about, from the dust it came so let it return.
It did not seem to matter to anyone in charge how it got done as long as it was done quickly, quietly, with no fanfare – just move it out of the way of progress.
So much to do, so many questions I was not smart enough nor wise enough to ask, so many decisions and so many answers and choices I never had to make.
Leading worship … insurance matters when a steam pipe original to 1956 had burst sending hot steam and water in their kitchen destroying what vestiges of a functional church campus had to offer any other interested congregations.
On top of that was a severe snow and ice weather event over our region which played havoc with our power and our heating system – and we had an adjacent Children’s Preschool Center attached to the Church educating kids since 1965.
It played havoc with getting an insurance adjustor to assess the damage and issue any checks for clean up and repair and restoration. Then someone had barreled their car headlong through our church sign in front of the church. So, now there was the no small matter of insurance money for replacement for a church that was being closed out of existence or under a new management.
It only got even more complicated when we had to work with the incoming church and their Pastor to work out the logistics of transference of the deed and keep the Preschool functioning and the various other community organizations which had a long history of highly positive community and neighborhood roots.
“Holy Spirit … Where are You? God, are you anywhere near this neighborhood? Savior Jesus, where is your promise of hope for a future, growth, prosperity?”
I was far outside my league taking on this level of responsibility without any sufficient knowledge, experience or wisdom – failure was written everywhere.
So, this became my go to verse for my prayers …
1 Kings 3:9 The Message
9 “Here’s what I want: Give me a God-listening heart so I can lead your people well, discerning the difference between good and evil. For who on their own is capable of leading your glorious people?” [In the name of My Savior Jesus, Alleluia! Amen]
I learned from this experience; Scripture often speaks of making wise decisions and reading, studying and using Scripture helps guide us and direct our choices.
There are numerous topics on which we can point to specific verses and see a black-and-white answer how we should respond properly in those situations.
Do you have a question about whether you should forgive your neighbor?
Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
Do you wonder if God cares if you stop going to church?
Hebrews 10:25 shares, “Not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”
Do you question if God desires for you to submit to authority?
Romans 13:1 admonishes, “Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God.”
What if we simply do not believe in ourselves to take upon ourselves His calling?
Proverbs 3:5-12 The Message
5-12 Trust God from the bottom of your heart;
don’t try to figure out everything on your own.
Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go;
he’s the one who will keep you on track.
Don’t assume that you know it all.
Run to God! Run from evil!
Your body will glow with health,
your very bones will vibrate with life!
Honor God with everything you own;
give him the first and the best.
Your barns will burst,
your wine vats will brim over.
But don’t, dear friend, resent God’s discipline;
don’t sulk under his loving correction.
It’s the child he loves that God corrects;
a father’s delight is behind all this.
As one of my favorite devotional writers says, there are places where the Bible man shouts to God. But what about the areas in which the Bible only faintly, barely audibly whispers? How do we know what prayerful decision to make?
In 1 Kings chapter 3, we find the young King Solomon.
He had just taken over the throne from his father, David. Solomon was likely in his early twenties, lacked any experience, and was understandably nervous and anxious about being a new Head of State leading the great nation of Israel.
One night, the Lord came to Solomon in a dream.
God told Solomon to ask for whatever he wanted, and God would give to him.
In essence, God gave young King Solomon, a “blank check” which had God’s own signature on the bottom line. “Ask anything and ye shall receive it all!”
9 “Here’s what I want: Give me a God-listening heart so I can lead your people well, discerning the difference between good and evil. For who on their own is capable of leading your glorious people?” [In the name of My Savior Jesus, Alleluia! Amen]
In our key verse, we find Solomon’s wise response, “So give your servant a discerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. For who is able to govern this great people of yours?” 1 Kings 3:9 NIV.
Of all the things King Solomon could have asked for, he asked for wisdom and discernment to lead his nation for as long as God gave him the breath to do so.
Wisdom is the ability to use your given knowledge well, while discernment, specifically godly discernment, is the ability to unhesitatingly fully rely on God (FROG) when praying for the wisest decisions for even the very worst choices.
Solomon was already wise even before asking the Lord to give him wisdom. He knew that in his strength, he would fail at leading this great nation. But, with the Lord on his side, guiding and directing his steps, he would be prosperous.
The Lord did grant Solomon wisdom, blessing him with wealth and honor.
While Solomon’s reign was successful, and there were times when he followed the Lord’s ways, there were other times when he turned from God.
Throughout Solomon’s life, we see the consequences of choosing the very best of human wisdom over allowing the Lord alone to lead, guide and direct him.
Thankfully, the Lord quickly granted grace and mercy when Solomon strayed and asked for forgiveness. The Lord was more concerned with Solomon’s heart and the motivations behind his choices, not necessarily the choices themselves.
The same is true for us today.
The Lord desires we serve and submit to Him with our hearts, minds, and souls.
Mark 10:35-45 Disciples’ Literal New Testament
Two Disciples Jockey For Position In The Kingdom. He Says, It Is Not Mine To Give
35 And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, approach Him, saying to Him, “Teacher, we want You to do for us whatever we ask You”. 36 And the One said to them, “What do you want Me to do for you?” 37 And the ones said to Him, “Grant to us that we may sit one on Your right side and one on the left side in Your glory”. 38 But Jesus said to them, “You do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup which I drink, or to be baptized the baptism which I am baptized?” 39 And the ones said to Him, “We are able”. And Jesus said to them, “You will drink the cup which I drink. And you will be baptized the baptism which I am baptized. 40 But the sitting on My right side or on the left side is not Mine to give, but it is for whom it has been prepared”.
Whoever Wants To Be First Shall Be Your Slave. Even I Came To Serve
41 And having heard-of it, the ten began to be indignant about James and John. 42 And having summoned them, Jesus says to them, “You know that the ones having-the-reputation-of [a] being rulers of the Gentiles are lording-over[b] them, and their great ones are exercising-authority-over[c] them. 43 But it is not so among you. But whoever wants to become great among you shall be your servant, 44 and whoever wants to be first among you shall be slave of all. 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many”.
So next time you face even the most difficult, even most controversial decision, precisely one where whatever you choose will be received with anger, vitriol or positive affirmations, take time to pick up your Bibles, Read the Scriptures, pray and ask the Lord for His wisdom, discernment. Lean into the Holy Spirit, listen for the ways He speaks to your heart, and whatever you decide, glorify the Lord.
Let’s Pray:
Psalm 111 Complete Jewish Bible
111 Halleluyah!
I will wholeheartedly give thanks to Adonai
in the council of the upright and in the assembly.
2 The deeds of Adonai are great,
greatly desired by all who enjoy them.
3 His work is full of majesty and splendor,
and his righteousness continues forever.
4 He has gained renown for his wonders.
Adonai is merciful and compassionate.
5 He gives food to those who fear him.
He remembers his covenant forever.
6 He shows his people how powerfully he works
by giving them the nations as their heritage.
7 The works of his hands are truth and justice;
all his precepts can be trusted.
8 They have been established forever and ever,
to be carried out truly and honestly.
9 He sent redemption to his people
and decreed that his covenant should last forever.
His name is holy and fearsome —
10 the first and foremost point of wisdom is the fear of Adonai;
all those living by it gain good common sense.
His praise stands forever.
Heavenly Father, we are thankful that we don’t have to experience life alone; we have the presence of the Holy Spirit inside our hearts. When we are at a crossroads, please guide us and let us feel at peace. Thank you for giving us the Bible; its timeless truths help us live daily to glorify You. We love you, Lord. May our heart’s desire be to always seek to bring you honor and glory, forever and ever. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.






