
Galatians 1:10 New American Standard Bible 1995
10 For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ.
The Word of God for the Children of God.
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.
When was the last time you asked yourself, “Am I pleasing other people or am I pleasing God?”
I would argue that the root of people pleasing is idolatry.
It is making a “god” out of ourselves and being accepted by others.
It is the idea that our greatest hope is that other created beings would approve of us and like us.
Today, we are going to be learning from Galatians 1:10 to please God above all.
Everyday Challenges to People Pleasing
Galatians 1:10 Amplified Bible
10 Am I now [a]trying to win the favor and approval of men, or of God? Or am I seeking to please someone? If I were still trying to be popular with men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ.
We face this every day.
Are we going to parent our children so they like us, or discipline and guide them because we love them?
Are we going to do what the boss and the company is asking us to do even though we know well that it is unethical, or will we risk our job for integrity?
Young people have to make these choices as well.
Are they going to bully that other kid in school, befriend or stand up for them?
Seeking to please or appease others comes from a desire to be loved, known, and accepted.
However, when we are operating out of our true identity as believers, we are reminded of these five biblical truths:
we are chosen (1 Peter 1:2),
12 It was revealed to them that they were not serving themselves, but you, in these things which now have been announced to you through those who preached the gospel to you by the Holy Spirit sent from heaven—things into which angels long to [a]look.
we are loved (John 3:16),
16 “For God so loved the world, that He gave His [a]only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
we are sons and daughters of God (John 1:12-13),
12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name, 13 who were [a]born, not of [b] blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.
we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:13-14),
13 For You formed my [a]inward parts;
You wove me in my mother’s womb.
14 I will give thanks to You, for [b]I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Wonderful are Your works,
And my soul knows it very well.
and we are secure in Christ (Isaiah 41:8-10).
8 “But you, Israel, My servant,
Jacob whom I have chosen,
Descendant of Abraham My friend,
9 You whom I have [a]taken from the ends of the earth,
And called from its remotest parts
And said to you, ‘You are My servant,
I have chosen you and not rejected you.
10 ‘Do not fear, for I am with you;
Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’
Will we act like the world to be loved by the world, or will we be set apart as a witness to Jesus?
Will we honor family, friends, or even ministries more than honoring Christ?
Will we use our words to puff others up, will we declare them the truth in love?
What Then Is Love?
Matthew 22:35-40 New American Standard Bible 1995
35 One of them, [a]a lawyer, asked Him a question, testing Him, 36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” 37 And He said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the great and [b]foremost commandment. 39 The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.”
We are called to love God first with everything.
I am a married man.
I am not partially married to my wife.
I am not only married to her on the weekdays and “take off” on the weekends.
I am forever hers, this side of heaven.
She is my covenant woman.
However, she is not Jesus.
I am not Jesus.
Jesus is my One and only First true Love.
He is the One in whom I rest in my salvation.
He is the only One who is worthy of my worship.
My marriage is a picture of Christ’s marriage to His church, however, it is a broken picture of it.
We do not have the ability to love God like Matthew 22:37-39 says, apart from the power and the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives.
It is impossible.
Hebrews 11:6 says, “Now without faith it is impossible to please God, since the one who draws near to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.”
If our desire in life is to please God, Hebrews makes it clear that we do this by having faith in Him.
This is only through the power of the Holy Spirit.
To love God also means that we obey Him.
John 14:5 says, “If you love me, keep my commands.”
We have failed at every single command from the Lord.
We know that we cannot always love Him nearly as well as He always loves us.
However, with His Spirit, we can love Him with the whole finiteness of all of our whole hearts and obey Him.
How does this affect our other relationships?
This means that our main priority in life is to please the Lord.
Does this mean that we do not love others well?
No, we are also called to love people in Matthew 22.
That means we live by the Spirit to love them well.
We invest time and energy into building community, we are connected to the church body locally, we are intentional with our time with family and friends, and we willingly choose self sacrifice to help others and care for them well.
However, any time a person or a thing creeps its way up into the throne of our hearts, we have made an idol.
It is impossible to worship God and someone else, just like it is impossible for me to be fully devoted to my wife but to “take a break” on the weekends.
We serve an all-in God.
An example of this is seen in Matthew 6 when Jesus discusses serving money and worldly possessions versus Him:
Matthew 6:24 New American Standard Bible 1995
24 “No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and [a] wealth.
God Disciplines to Yield Fruit
Paul tells it like it is in Galatians 1:10.
He says, “If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
He is well aware that he has lived to please others in the past, but his new desire is to honor Jesus, his Savior, with his life.
What is your biggest struggle when it comes to pleasing others instead of God?
Think about some practical ways you do this.
It might seem small, such as, “I jump in when others gossip at work to fit in.”
Or it might be something large like, “I never tell my boss not even when I have to prioritize work over my family and faith community time and time again.”
Whatever we are struggling with right now, whatever you have struggled with in the past or whatever you are currently working through with the Spirit and God’s Word, remember through the struggles, that we are all being sanctified.
We do not have to work so hard to remain in our “people pleasing” mindsets that lead us into negative spirals – we can choose to live life in true freedom.
The beautiful part is that when we please God, there is blessing that follows.
No, it does not mean that people will not disagree with us, laugh at us, gossip about us, or even hate us.
However, we will have a confidence rooted and established on that Rock, our Fortress, our Anchor: Jesus Christ.
Psalm 18:1-3 GOD’S WORD Translation
For the choir director; by David, the servant of the Lord. He sang this song to the Lord when the Lord rescued him from all his enemies, especially from Saul. He said,
18 I love you, O Lord, my strength.
2 The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my Savior,
my God, my rock in whom I take refuge,
my shield, and the strength of my salvation,
my stronghold.
3 The Lord should be praised.
I called on him, and I was saved from my enemies.
We will know that we are living lives with internal peace and joy because we suffer with Him and for His name’s sake.
We will also love better.
We will be able to have our priorities and people in the correct places in our hearts.
This means that we will be better husbands or wives, better parents, better siblings, better children, better friends, better workers, and better people.
This might seem like a simple concept, however it is also very complex.
Psalm 139:23-24 New American Standard Bible 1995
23 Search me, O God, and know my heart;
Try me and know my anxious thoughts;
24 And see if there be any [a]hurtful way in me,
And lead me in the everlasting way.
As we come to that place of surrendering our hearts and minds to the work of the Spirit, may we ask Him to search us, to test us, to reveal anything in us that is not of Him – that He might lead us onto the correct path unto His eternal life.
May we live out no other gods but Him.
Exodus 20:3 New American Standard Bible 1995
3 “You shall have no other gods [a]before Me.
May we find our identity in being children of God, may we actualize His worth far and above over our own, maximize pleasing our Heavenly Father above all.
In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,
Let us Pray,
Psalm 8 New American Standard Bible 1995
The Lord’s Glory and Man’s Dignity.
For the choir director; on the Gittith. A Psalm of David.
8 O Lord, our Lord,
How majestic is Your name in all the earth,
Who have [a]displayed Your splendor above the heavens!
2 From the mouth of infants and nursing babes You have established [b]strength
Because of Your adversaries,
To make the enemy and the revengeful cease.
3 When I [c]consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers,
The moon and the stars, which You have [d]ordained;
4 What is man that You [e]take thought of him,
And the son of man that You care for him?
5 Yet You have made him a little lower than [f]God,
And You crown him with glory and majesty!
6 You make him to rule over the works of Your hands;
You have put all things under his feet,
7 All sheep and oxen,
And also the [g]beasts of the field,
8 The birds of the heavens and the fish of the sea,
Whatever passes through the paths of the seas.
9 O Lord, our Lord,
How majestic is Your name in all the earth!
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.








