
Romans 8:26-28 English Standard Version
26 Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. 27 And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because[a] the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. 28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good,[b] for those who are called according to his purpose.
The Word of God for the Children of God.
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.
The Bible teaches us many things about the Holy Spirit as a counselor working alongside and within us, convicting us of sin and guiding us to full life in Christ.
And in our Romans 8 reading today we learn of a specific way in which the Spirit ministers to us being The Holy Spirit helps us to pray, even prays for us.
In Romans 8, the Apostle Paul is seeking to encourage his readers in the face of discouragement.
Paul urges his readers to keep concentrating on the glory that lies before them in Jesus Christ.
Wait and hope, Apostle Paul goes on to say, because the fullness of all that God has promised will come, and that day will be glorious!
As hope helps us to keep going in times of great difficulty, so the Holy Spirit helps us when we pray.
When we pray, we don’t always have the words to express what we think or how we feel.
In fact, some of our deepest needs and desires can’t even be expressed in words.
Paul calls these “wordless groans.”
But the Holy Spirit “intercedes”—or, more literally, goes between—on our behalf.
He intercedes for us before God.
He helps us pray.
Keep hoping and praying.
And while you’re hoping and praying, be assured that when you have longings deep in your heart that you can’t even fully express, the Holy Spirit presents your needs directly to God the Father, who hears and answers all our prayers.
Our Friendship with the Holy Spirit
At salvation you were given the gift of God himself, the Spirit of Christ, dwelling within you.
Ephesians 1:13-14 says, “In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.”
And with the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, friendship with God has been made available to greater depths than you can imagine.
He longs to spend time with you like a friend.
He longs for you to know how he feels, what he thinks is best and your heavenly Father’s heart for you.
Scripture teaches us a lot about the character of the Spirit.
Acts 13:2 teaches us that the Spirit speaks: “While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, ‘Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.’”
In Ephesians 4:30 we learn that the Spirit feels emotions like grief: “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”
Romans 8:26-27 teaches us that the Spirit is our Helper and prays for us:
“Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.”
Friendship with the Spirit is one of God’s greatest gifts to us.
He speaks to us, is emotionally invested in our lives, helps us in our weakness and prays for us when we don’t have the words.
So great is God’s love for you that he sent his Spirit to dwell with you.
So great is his desire for continued relationship with you that, in his grace, he has given you himself as a constant companion.
Another important characteristic of the Spirit, however, is that he will not force relationship on you.
He speaks when you listen, he gives you revelation as you open your mind to receive it, and he leads you as you ask for his guidance.
The Spirit is full of incredible power but also incredible meekness and humility.
He is both powerful and respectful.
If you ask for a deeper friendship with the Holy Spirit, you will find he is the best friend you have ever known.
Take time as you enter into prayer to get to know the Holy Spirit like a friend.
In his book The Pursuit of God A.W. Tozer writes,
“Religion, so far as it is genuine, is in essence the response of created personalities to the creating personality, God.”
The Holy Spirit has a personality.
He has likes and dislikes.
He feels, thinks, enjoys, likes, suffers, and desires. May your time in prayer be filled with new levels of friendship with the Spirit of God dwelling within you.
In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,
Let us Pray,
1.Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal his nearness to you.
Take time to acknowledge his presence.
“In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:13-14
2. Give thanks to the Spirit for who he is.
Thank him for his presence in your life. Thank him for his desire to speak to you, lead you, help you and pray for you.
“While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, ‘Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.’” Acts 13:2
“Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.” Romans 8:26-27
3. Now ask the Spirit how he’s currently feeling.
Ask him his perspective on anything in your life or the world around you.
Listen and pay attention to any inclination you feel brought to mind.
Perhaps even take the time and make the effort to journal what he says.
Remember, friendship with the Spirit is like any other friendship in that it develops over time.
Like a new friend, you must get to know his character and personality.
Spend time just talking with him, listening to him and allowing him to work in your heart and life. He is an incredible gift given to you.
He is your gateway to experiencing the things of God. Walk in relationship with him, go forth, follow his guidance, make a new best friend in the Holy Spirit.
Holy Spirit, thank you for interceding on our behalf. Give us hope and help us to pray. We trust you, we heartily welcome you into our atmosphere in Jesus’ name. Amen.
Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.








