Never Forget 9/11! Never Forget God! Nor ever Forget the Lord’s Prayer: it is His Meaning behind the Powerful Phrase ‘For Thine Is the Kingdom’! Matthew 6:5-13

Matthew 6:5-13 King James Version

And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.

But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.

Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.

After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.

10 Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.

11 Give us this day our daily bread.

12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

T0day, marks the 23rd anniversary of the attack against the United States known simply as 9/11. That day is a day that is ingrained into to each of us old enough to remember. Looking back, it is hard to believe 23 years have passed.

I recall hearing of the first tower being struck by a plane. At first it seemed it was a horrible accident. It was not even clear what type of plane it was, whose plane it was, was it Hollywood special effects, a preview of a new epic movie?

What is your story from that day?

Where were you on that day?

Where on earth or in Heaven Was GOD?

On that day, the death toll from the four commercial aircraft, the Pentagon, and the World Trade Towers totaled 2,996 with another 6,000 injured. That is not the whole story. Nearly 10,000 first responders and volunteers have since been diagnosed with cancers caused by the toxic fumes & dust. Quoting the USA Today newspaper, “By the end of 2018, many expect that more people will have died from their toxic exposure from 9/11 than were killed on that terrible day.”

I had questions……. If we are honest with ourselves, …I bet we all had questions following that day.

Why would a religion that was supposedly built upon peace, teach and demonstrate that much hate & violence towards others?

Do you recall all of the celebrating & parades shown from the Arab world?

…. More importantly to me, and my faith, Where was GOD during this? …. Why does GOD even allow such violent and murderous things like this to happen?

I was shocked. I was confused. I was hurt. I was crying I was angry, I was scared.

I didn’t know what was coming next.

An all out attack upon the United States?

Had somebody made a declaration of war against us?

Was God’s day of judgement coming and coming right quick?

I was questioning GOD….and I didn’t even know if it was alright to question GOD. For all I knew, GOD might strike me down just for challenging HIM.

After all, I just saw what happened on television and who knows any details, who knows how many people were just suddenly killed and severely injured?

Today, I’d like to share what I’ve discovered since.

Maybe this will help some of you as well. The first thing I have learned is that GOD, His Kingdom is definitely big enough to handle our stresses, questions.

He has a whole universe which He created. HE has broad shoulders. GOD is not petty. HE did not give up on me, even when I was close to giving up on HIM.

The second thing I learned was that I wasn’t even the first person to question GOD. In fact, the Bible offers several examples of this very thing.

In Psalm 10:1, the writer asks Why do You stand afar off, O Lord? Why do You hide in times of trouble?

Jesus Himself asked this same question in Mathew 27:46 about the ninth hour Jesus cried with a loud voice, saying “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?”

The destruction of the Twin Towers was devastating to me, watching it over & over the collapse of the buildings, the billowing black clouds of smoke, the dead being carried out, the ash collecting upon cars and on the faces of those on site.

Your Kingdom Come

“This . . . is how you should pray: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come. . . .’” —  Matthew 6:9-10

Most of us are confronted by many challenges – some simple others are not so simple but greatly challenge our faith, face many, many choices each day too.

On a daily basis, What clothes will I wear? What will I have for breakfast? What route will I take to work? What do I need at the store? Tasks will I focus on?

There is one choice, however, that is far more important than all the others: God, His Word’s on the matter before us and Prayer, Which kingdom will I serve? Where will I spend my best efforts—in the kingdom of God or in the kingdom or domain or country or community or family that I am dwelling in?

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and Holy Spirit, where can I help, how can I serve, how can I support those around me, who need it most?

Jesus teaches us to pray, “Father . . . your kingdom come.”

As we pray these words, we are making a commitment to living God’s way.

“Your kingdom come” means, first of all, “Rule over me! Master my soul. Make me a loyal citizen of your kingdom.” It means, “Lord, rule in my life and master me in such a way that my deepest desire is to walk with you. May your principles and ways be the air that I breathe.”

“Your kingdom come” also means, “Help me to see your kingdom advance in the people around me—my family, friends, classmates, coworkers, and neighbors. Help me to foster a love for kingdom living in them as well.”

This also means seeing institutions and organizations abide, align with those principles of God’s kingdom. And as the Lord’s kingdom comes, is revealed and acts, any evil forces that revolt against him will be overwhelmed and shattered.

My Lord and Savior’s Prayer and My Life’s Prayer

Philippians 3:7-14 The Message

7-9 The very credentials these people are waving around as something special, I’m tearing up and throwing out with the trash—along with everything else I used to take credit for. And why? Because of Christ. Yes, all the things I once thought were so important are gone from my life. Compared to the high privilege of knowing Christ Jesus as my Master, firsthand, everything I once thought I had going for me is insignificant—dog dung. I’ve dumped it all in the trash so that I could embrace Christ and be embraced by him. I didn’t want some petty, inferior brand of righteousness that comes from keeping a list of rules when I could get the robust kind that comes from trusting Christ—God’s righteousness.

10-11 I gave up all that inferior stuff so I could know Christ personally, experience his resurrection power, be a partner in his suffering, and go all the way with him to death itself. If there was any way to get in on the resurrection from the dead, I wanted to do it.

Focused on the Goal

12-14 I’m not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back.

I read where researchers in Europe went door to door, asking people about their belief in God. One question was this:

“Do you believe in a God who intervenes in human lives, who changes the course of history, and performs miracles?” A typical response to this question was “No, I don’t believe in that God. I believe in the ordinary God.”

I admit that it can be tempting to fall back in our faith, prefer “the ordinary God”—that is, a God who is there when I need him but who remains mostly quiet and who cares how distant in the background while I go about my life.

Fortunately the Scriptures do not let us settle with that notion of an ordinary God. The Jesus we meet in the New Testament entered our world, carried our burden of sin to the cross, bled, died in our place, and then rose from the dead and later ascended to rule with God in heaven. This is not any “ordinary God.”

The God of the Bible does in fact break into our lives in all kinds of surprising, beautiful, and disruptive ways.

John 3:16-18 The Message

16-18 “This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. Anyone who trusts in him is acquitted; anyone who refuses to trust him has long since been under the death sentence without knowing it. And why? Because of that person’s failure to believe in the one-of-a-kind Son of God when introduced to him.

In fact, the one true God is beyond anyone’s broadest definition of the term extraordinary. And all of this is conveyed in this remarkable prayer of Paul:

“God, I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings” and then to experience that resurrection as well.

What a prayer!

How would my life, your life, our lives change if this became our life’s prayer?

What could happen if we all prayed this “Lord’s Prayer” this “my life’s prayer” for the people in my life, in your life and in all our fellow Body of Christ lives?

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Psalm 32 The Message

32 Count yourself lucky, how happy you must be—
    you get a fresh start,
    your slate’s wiped clean.

Count yourself lucky—
    God holds nothing against you
    and you’re holding nothing back from him.

When I kept it all inside,
    my bones turned to powder,
    my words became daylong groans.

The pressure never let up;
    all the juices of my life dried up.

Then I let it all out;
    I said, “I’ll come clean about my failures to God.”

Suddenly the pressure was gone—
    my guilt dissolved,
    my sin disappeared.

These things add up. Every one of us needs to pray;
    when all hell breaks loose and the dam bursts
    we’ll be on high ground, untouched.

God’s my island hideaway,
    keeps danger far from the shore,
    throws garlands of hosannas around my neck.

Let me give you some good advice;
    I’m looking you in the eye
    and giving it to you straight:

“Don’t be ornery like a horse or mule
    that needs bit and bridle
    to stay on track.”

10 God-defiers are always in trouble;
    God-affirmers find themselves loved
    every time they turn around.

11 Celebrate God.
    Sing together—everyone!
    All you honest hearts, raise the roof!

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

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Why All of those Persistent Prayers: Why Do We Need Jesus Every Hour? Luke 11:1-8

Luke 11:1-8 New American Standard Bible 1995

Instruction about Prayer

11 It happened that while [a]Jesus was praying in a certain place, after He had finished, one of His disciples said to Him, “Lord, teach us to pray just as John also taught his disciples.” And He said to them, “When you pray, say:

[b]Father, hallowed be Your name.
Your kingdom come.
‘Give us each day our [c]daily bread.
‘And forgive us our sins,
For we ourselves also forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
And lead us not into temptation.’”

Then He said to them, “[d]Suppose one of you has a friend, and goes to him at midnight and says to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves; for a friend of mine has come to me from a journey, and I have nothing to set before him’; and from inside he answers and says, ‘Do not bother me; the door has already been shut and my children [e]and I are in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.’ I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, yet because of his [f]persistence he will get up and give him as much as he needs.

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

And He said to them, “When you pray, say:

[b]Father, hallowed be Your name.
Your kingdom come.
‘Give us each day our [c]daily bread.
‘And forgive us our sins,
For we ourselves also forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
And lead us not into temptation.’”

I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, yet because of his [f]persistence he will get up and give him as much as he needs.

Sometimes I wonder that Christians talk and write too much about prayer.

It would be better if, like the disciples, we’d watch and learn as others pray.

Today’s Bible reading shows that Jesus had no problem having his disciples watch him pray. It must have been quite profound and inspirational the way that Jesus prayed that made one disciple urge him to teach them all to pray.

It is the practice of Jewish men to open their days with the Shema prayer from Deuteronomy 6:4 and then pray the same prayer three or more times per day.

The prayer begins and concludes every single worship service in the synagogue.

It begins and concludes every individual and family prayer session in the home.

“Hear, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord is one!

Is there a new teaching coming from the Master Rabbi?

Is there a radically significant change coming about their routine of Prayer?

Jesus responded by teaching them to pray what is now known as “the Lord’s Prayer.” (See also Matthew 6:9-13.)

“Pray, then, in this way:

‘Our Father who is in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.
10 ‘Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
11 ‘Give us this day [a]our daily bread.
12 ‘And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 ‘And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from [b]evil. [c][For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.’]

More likely an enhancement, a deepening of the personal relationship each of them already shares. We can be assured that Jesus’ praying was not limited to the brief petitions here. Prayer is an integral part of our relationship with God. Jesus made that clear by adding the illustration of a dialogue between friends.

In light of this, we should understand that daily praying to our Heavenly Father as boldly as we would approach a friend probably surprised the disciples as well as many other followers-teach others to pray-teach others what they all know?

A friend’s boldness is based on the measure and depth of their friendship, and we can definitely trust our heavenly Father to be so much closer than a friend.

John 15:13-16 New American Standard Bible 1995

13 Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends. 14 You are My friends if you do what I command you. 15 No longer do I call you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and  that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you.

So too our heavenly Father will give us what friendship we need—and often, much more that is good for us.

Mainly, though, it’s our needs that God will provide, not our wants—and we can trust that.

So too I pray we may be bold, persistent as we talk with our Father in heaven?

Why Do We Need Jesus Every Hour?

Luke 11:1-4 New American Standard Bible 1995

Instruction about Prayer

11 It happened that while [a]Jesus was praying in a certain place, after He had finished, one of His disciples said to Him, “Lord, teach us to pray just as John also taught his disciples.” And He said to them, “When you pray, say:

[b]Father, hallowed be Your name.
Your kingdom come.
‘Give us each day our [c]daily bread.
‘And forgive us our sins,
For we ourselves also forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
And lead us not into temptation.’”

I need Thee ev’ry hour,
In joy or pain;
Come quickly and abide,
Or life is vain.

There is nothing quite as sweet as getting a worship song stuck in your head and having the lyrics float back into your head throughout the day–often when you need them most.

To me, it feels like an affectionate touch from Jesus, a playful reminder that he is there with me and experiencing my day with me.

Like a lover pulling your face towards them so they can look into your eyes, Jesus uses so many things to bring our attention back to him.

The lyrics that have been floating around my head for the past week have been from the 1873 hymnal “I Need Thee Every Hour:” 

I need Thee, oh, I need Thee;
Ev’ry hour I need Thee;
Oh, bless me now, my Savior,
I come to Thee.

The funny thing is, I really struggle with believing that I need Jesus every hour.

My pride hates having that kind of desperation; my fear hates having to depend on someone else. But these lyrics remind us that in every instance that we need Jesus is an instance that he shows up for us.

So why do we need Jesus every hour? And why is this a beautiful thing?

1. Provision

“The Spirit of God has made me;
the breath of the Almighty gives me life.” Job 33:4

We depend on Jesus for everything–even our very breath!

As much as we trick ourselves into thinking we can do it all on our own, we would be nothing without the provision of Jesus.

Sure, we can handle having a full-time job, raising kids, and working out.

But can we provide ourselves with oxygen?

Can we cause food to grow by our own stubborn will?

Did we even INVENT food, or is that also something that God created to take care of us?

Our sovereign trinity provides every breath for us, every morsel of food, every drop of water, every fiber of shelter, every relationship.

The next time you’re conscious of your breathing, thank Jesus for sustaining your life with his own breath.

2. Existence

“Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind.” John 1:3-4

“The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word.” Hebrews 1:3a

Everything that we see, have, experience all comes from Jesus.

He created everything in this beautiful world for our benefit.

And in him is life!

Jesus sustains our existence.

Even though it may feel like the weight of the world is on our shoulders, the truth is that Jesus upholds everything and everyone by his own power.

We are utterly dependent on him–and he is so happy to be depended on.

3. Grace

“But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.” 1 John 1:7

Jesus’ blood continually cleanses us from sin.

Even when we think we’ve had a “pretty good day” and can’t recall any overt sin that we committed, there’s a 100% chance that each and every single one of us have still “fallen short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23).

We still secretly harbor jealousy or bitterness towards our coworkers, friends, or family. We still think nasty things about the guy who cut us off in traffic. We will still take the very last piece of pie, cake instead of considering our spouse.

We sin in a million, instantaneous, indiscernible ways every day.

But Jesus’ blood continually cleanses us anyways.

What a gift that we receive again and again and again.

4. Belonging

“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God–” John 1:12

Belonging to a family is one of the deepest, most inherent, most essential needs that we are born into this world with.

It’s how we get our identity, our sense of safety, our purpose, and our bearing in a scary, complex world. And this is something we’ll never grow out of needing.

Even if our family rejects us, we have a family because of Jesus.

Psalm 27:10 New American Standard Bible 1995

10 [a]For my father and my mother have forsaken me,
But the Lord will take me up.

Even if we reject ourselves,

Psalm 22:6 New American Standard Bible 1995

But I am a worm and not a man,
A reproach of men and despised by the people.

Jesus will always still give us a place to belong! 

5. Security

“What they trust in is fragile; what they rely on is a spider’s web.” Job 8:14

“See, I lay a stone in Zion, a tested stone, a precious cornerstone for a sure foundation; the one who relies on it will never be stricken with panic.” Isaiah 28:16

Speaking of a scary world, it is extremely disorienting when we realize that the things we typically put our trust in–our jobs, our marriage, our money, our status, etc.–are just spiderwebs. They don’t hold us up for even one second.

But Jesus is the cornerstone that can depended on.

He guides the building of the rest of our lives and makes it so we can ultimately know what we’re doing and where we’re going.

As the 1834 hymn “My Hope Is Built on Nothing Less” puts it:

On Christ, the Solid Rock, I stand; All other ground is sinking sand, all other ground is sinking sand.

6. Unconditional Love

“But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8

This is a good thing!

The God of love created us, God himself is love.

Love gives our existence meaning.

Without love, we are alone, purposeless, and darkened.

We especially need this unconditional love when we have messed up (which, as I’ve said, happens innumerable times a day).

Even if you’re a tough guy and think you could make it in life without love, just think about the times from your childhood that you were harmed by others’ not loving you the way you needed. We all need love, and we all need it all the time.

Thankfully, Jesus demonstrated that his love is as unconditional as it gets: dying for us while we were still his enemies.

7. Salvation

“Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” Acts 4:12

We don’t know when Jesus is coming back or when the day of judgment will be–Jesus himself doesn’t even know! (Matthew 24:36).

36 “But of that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father alone.

And I, for one, don’t wish to be relying on my own righteousness when that day does come.

We rely on Jesus’ salvation every second of every day, because we can do nothing on our own (John 15:5).

I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing.

It is such a beautiful thing that we have Jesus to rely on.

He gives us our breath; he sustains our very existence; he continually purifies us; he gives us a place at the table; he is our Rock; he loves us no matter what; and he cannot wait to take us home with him as his bride when that day comes. (Psalm 18)

We do need him every hour. Truly, we need him minute, every second, every millisecond, every nanosecond, for eternity!

And thankfully, Jesus himself kindly invites us to depend on him: “Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these’” (Matthew 19:14).

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Psalm 42 New American Standard Bible 1995

BOOK 2

Thirsting for God in Trouble and Exile.

For the choir director. A [a]Maskil of the sons of Korah.

42 As the deer [b]pants for the water brooks,
So my soul [c]pants for You, O God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God;
When shall I come and [d]appear before God?
My tears have been my food day and night,
While they say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”
These things I remember and I pour out my soul within me.
For I used to go along with the throng and [e]lead them in procession to the house of God,
With the voice of joy and thanksgiving, a multitude keeping festival.

Why are you [f]in despair, O my soul?
And why have you become disturbed within me?
[g]Hope in God, for I shall [h]again praise [i]Him
For the [j]help of His presence.
O my God, my soul is [k]in despair within me;
Therefore I remember You from the land of the Jordan
And the [l]peaks of Hermon, from Mount Mizar.
Deep calls to deep at the sound of Your waterfalls;
All Your breakers and Your waves have rolled over me.
The Lord will command His lovingkindness in the daytime;
And His song will be with me in the night,
A prayer to the God of my life.

I will say to God my rock, “Why have You forgotten me?
Why do I go mourning [m]because of the oppression of the enemy?”
10 As a shattering of my bones, my adversaries revile me,
While they say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”
11 Why are you [n]in despair, O my soul?
And why have you become disturbed within me?
[o]Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him,
The [p]help of my countenance and my God.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

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“Thy Will Be Done! O’ Lord, Amen!” What are we Missing? Matthew 6:10

Matthew 6:9-13 New American Standard Bible 1995

“Pray, then, in this way:

‘Our Father who is in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.
10 ‘Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
11 ‘Give us this day [a]our daily bread.
12 ‘And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 ‘And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from [b]evil. [c][For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.’]

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

Can You Miss God’s Will?

Matthew 6:10 New American Standard Bible 1995

10 ‘Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.

The fear of missing God’s will is enough to paralyze any Christian.

But here’s the question: can a Christian miss the will of God for their life?

Could you somehow go your entire life being outside of God’s good plan for you?

It seems that the Bible teaches that, yes, you can miss God’s will.

It also teaches that no, you can’t miss God’s will.

We Can Miss God’s Will If …

The way to miss God’s will is really simple: ignore the Bible.

In the Bible God has told us exactly what we should do when it comes to making decisions.

First, we should determine if our decision goes against anything clearly spelled out in the Bible.

The Bible is clear that fellowship with other believers is necessary for our Christian growth.

If taking a job will cut you off from fellowship with others, it’s not God’s will for you to take the job.

Second, we should ask God to give us wisdom. 

James 1:5–6 says: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting…”

Getting wisdom from God isn’t a mystical, super-spiritual experience.

It means asking God to help us think clearly and biblically about the decision in front of us.

When we ask for wisdom we should believe God is going to give it to us.

God isn’t trying to hide his good will from us.

He wants to help us understand the right way to walk.

Third, we should ask the opinion of others. 

Proverbs 15:22 says, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.”

This is so gloriously simple.

Finding God’s will for your life is as simple as asking others to pray for you on the matter and then asking the opinion of those other, godly Christians.

Lay the situation out before them, and then let God speak to you through their counsel.

You Can’t Miss God’s Will If…

If we heed the counsel of scripture, we won’t miss God’s will.

So here are 3 signs you are following God’s will for your life, and for each point we will also see the signs that will be present when we are about to miss God’s will for our lives.

1. When You Are Obeying God’s Commands and Seeking to Glorify Him, You Are Following God’s Will for Your Life / When You Are Not Obeying God’s Commands and Choosing Not to Glorify Him, You Are Missing God’s Will for Your Life

1 Thessalonians 4:1-8 New American Standard Bible 1995

Sanctification and Love

4 Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to [a]walk and please God (just as you actually do [b]walk), that you excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you [c]by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from [d]sexual immorality; 4 that each of you know how to [e]possess his own [f]vessel in sanctification and honor , not in [g]lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but [h]in sanctification. So, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you.

According to these verses, if you want to follow God’s will for your life, it will all start with obeying God’s commands.

Notice the emphasis Paul puts on us to do what we “ought” and “walk and to please the Lord.”

We are to follow the “instructions” of the apostles which Jesus gave them (which is the word of God).

God’s will is that we be sanctified. God has called us to live holy lives.

Therefore, it is reasonably safe to say that when we are obeying God’s word we are following God’s will.

2. When You Are Choosing to Sacrificially Love Someone, You Are Following God’s Will for Your Life / When You Are Running from Sacrificial Love, This Is a Sign You Are Missing God’s Will for Your Life

God always leads us to love.

How we express this love will look differently depending on each situation.

Sometimes God will lead you to commit to someone more so you can love them in a greater way.

Sometimes God will lead you to let someone go because that is what is best for the both of you.

The key to real love is to put that other person above any selfish desires of your own. 

Notice what Jesus said in John 15:12-17. It states:

John 15:12-17 New American Standard Bible 1995

Disciples’ Relation to Each Other

12 “This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends. 14 You are My friends if you do what I command you. 15 No longer do I call you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you. 17 This I command you, that you love one another.

Notice that Jesus actually “appointed you that you should go and bear fruit.”

What is that fruit that he has called us to produce?

That we love one another as he has loved us.

You will recognize what path is God’s will for your life by choosing the path of sacrificial love.

3. When You Are Being Joyful in the Lord Regardless of What Doors God Is Sovereignly Opening and Closing in Your Life, This Is a Sign You Are Following God’s Will / If You Are Resenting God Because You Do Not Like What God Is Doing in Your Life, This Is a Sign You Are Missing God’s Will

When it comes to following the will of God for your life, often what is more important than “what” you choose to do is “how” you choose to do it.

In other words, the details and events that occur in our lives are often outside of our control and fall under the “sovereign will of God.”

But how we go through these events and experiences that God brings into our lives will truly be determined by the choices we make and don’t make when we choose to follow God’s Spirit or not.

You will know you are following God’s will for your life by your attitude towards the things that are out of your control. 

As 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 states, “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

So whether you choose to relate that person, place or thing or not, whether you are single or get married, whether you stay at that job or go work somewhere else – the single most important variable in the equation of following God’s will for your life is whether or not you are choosing to humble yourself, surrender your will, to glorify and honor the Lord by remaining joyful in him at all times.

God will open and close certain doors in our lives and this is out of our control.

But God desires that no matter what happens, we go through it all with him in a spirit of prayerful submission and joy.

Lord, Teach Us to Pray …

Matthew 6:5-13 New American Standard Bible 1995

“When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners [a]so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.

“And when you are praying, do not use meaningless repetition as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.

“Pray, then, in this way:

‘Our Father who is in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.
10 ‘Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
11 ‘Give us this day [b]our daily bread.
12 ‘And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 ‘And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from [c]evil. [d][For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.’]

By the model of prayer that Jesus gives us here, what this prayer teaches us is God isn’t trying to hide his will, or trying to trick us into making a bad decision.

Go away to your “prayer closet,” your “private place” your “war room” where God alone knows exactly what is going on, God alone knows what needs to be.

Pick up your Bible, and in no uncertain terms, fully engage the Word of God!

If we evaluate our decision by scripture, ask for wisdom, and then ask the opinion of others, we are doing what the will of God requires of us, for us.

He promises to guide us through that process.

Often, our prayers can be focused on the chaos of the “street level” of our lives.

We are concerned about health, finances, relationships, and decisions.

Jesus does not deny the chaotic troubles of this world, but by this Lord’s prayer, he invites us all to see the world also from God’s perspective as he teaches us to pray that God’s kingdom will come, and that God’s will may be accomplished.

We don’t need to seek a subjective, mystical, spiritual feeling when it comes to decision making.

Don’t get me wrong; sometimes God gives us peace about a decision, and that’s an authentic blessing when God knows we truly need it above all other things.

But that’s not always the case.

Sometimes we might not feel one way or another about a decision.

In general, feelings are a very bad barometer of the truth.

A feeling of peace can come from God, but it can also come from a lot of other things, like a glass of wine or a good nap.

Plus, what exactly constitutes the “right” feeling when it comes to a decision?

Is it peace? Or maybe joy? Or a sense of rightness?

The Bible doesn’t tell us what we’re supposed to feel about our decisions.

Instead, it tells us how to make biblical, God-honoring decisions.

So, if you have a big decision to make, don’t freak out.

2 Timothy 2:14-15 New American Standard Bible 1995

An Unashamed Workman

14 Remind them of these things, and solemnly charge them in the presence of God not to wrangle about words, which is useless and leads to the ruin of the hearers. 15 Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth.

James 1:19-24 New American Standard Bible 1995

19 [a]This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear,  slow to speak and slow to anger; 20 for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. 21 Therefore, putting aside all filthiness and all [b]that remains of wickedness, in [c]humility receive the word implanted, which is able to save your souls. 22 But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves. 23 For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his [d]natural face in a mirror; 24 for once he has looked at himself and gone away, [e]he has immediately forgotten what kind of person he was.

Instead, go to the Word, study it and ask for wisdom, and get others involved.

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Psalm 20 English Standard Version

Trust in the Name of the Lord Our God

To the choirmaster. A Psalm of David.

20 May the Lord answer you in the day of trouble!
    May the name of the God of Jacob protect you!
May he send you help from the sanctuary
    and give you support from Zion!
May he remember all your offerings
    and regard with favor your burnt sacrifices! Selah

May he grant you your heart’s desire
    and fulfill all your plans!
May we shout for joy over your salvation,
    and in the name of our God set up our banners!
May the Lord fulfill all your petitions!

Now I know that the Lord saves his anointed;
    he will answer him from his holy heaven
    with the saving might of his right hand.
Some trust in chariots and some in horses,
    but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.
They collapse and fall,
    but we rise and stand upright.

O Lord, save the king!
    May he answer us when we call.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost;
as it was in the beginning,
is now, and ever shall be,
world without end. Amen, amen.

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