
James 2:8-9 Amplified Bible
8 If, however, you are [really] fulfilling the royal law according to the Scripture, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself [that is, if you have an unselfish concern for others and do things for their benefit]” you are doing well. 9 But if you show partiality [prejudice, favoritism], you are committing sin and are convicted by the Law as offenders.
The Word of God for the Children of God.
Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Ghost; as it was in the beginning; is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen, Amen.
Par·ti·al·i·ty – unfair bias in favor of one thing or person compared with another; favoritism.
Are you, am I, showing partiality to people?
If so, are we even aware that we’re sinning?
Most of us might be quick to respond with, “No, I don’t show favoritism.”
But think about it very carefully.
When given the singular or habitual opportunity to choose, do we give gifts to people we believe deserve them over others who seem less deserving?
Are we more willing to help those people who we believe are “worthy” of being helped over those we, by some worldly standard of measure, deem less worthy?
Digging deeper, do we give our offerings to those we like better than others rather than asking God where to give, following His leading over our own?
Likewise, how do we decide whether to donate to someone’s mission trip or not?
What standard of criteria do we base our generosity on?
Even deeper, when it comes to prayer, do we pray more for people we believe deserve our prayer time and our efforts over those who seem beyond hope?
How might God react to that business of “partiality?”
Does God show favoritism?
Is God a “partial or impartial” God?
Does God’s love discriminate based on human standards – race, ethnicity, skin color, national origin, young or old, male or female and etcetera? (JOHN 3:16)
Although many believers may not consider favoritism a serious issue or even something to be dealt with, God makes it abundantly clear that our showing any partiality towards people is absolutely not okay. (read also Galatians 3:23-29)
It might be a hard concept for us to grasp because, as believers, we may think He does because of various passages in the Bible where God gives favor.
But God clearly distinguishes between His giving favor and His showing favoritism, so quickly setting this misconception aside, His word tells us,
“For God does not show favoritism” (Romans 2:11).
It’s enormously challenging, too, trying to convince some Christians it’s not a good thing because some do not even minimally consider showing partiality sinful or view it as doing anything particularly divisive, or harmful or wrong.
There are likewise believers, too, who, by some rationale, will even think and believe it’s a wise and discerning practice, justifying favoring some individuals over others, seeing those certain persons as more deserving and responsible for receiving their kindness, generosity, helpfulness, and more. (read Acts 6:1-6)
Churches who play favorites: Acceptance With No Favoritism
Who hasn’t seen favoritism?
Sadly, partiality is widespread not only out in the world but in many churches.
James 2:1-4 addresses it within the Church, revealing the sinfulness behind it.
James 2:1-4 Amplified Bible
The Sin of Partiality
2 My fellow believers, do not practice your faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ with an attitude of partiality [toward people—show no favoritism, no prejudice, no snobbery]. 2 For if a man comes into your [a]meeting place [b] wearing a gold ring and [c]fine clothes, and a poor man in dirty clothes also comes in, 3 and you pay special attention to the one who wears the [d]fine clothes, and say to him, “You sit here in this good seat,” and you tell the poor man, “You stand over there, or sit down [on the floor] by my footstool,” 4 have you not discriminated among yourselves, and become judges with wrong motives?
The Bible makes clear that believers in Christ, enjoying the gift of God’s acceptance by grace, may not show favoritism, treating some people as better or more worthy than others.
This follows from God’s own practice of accepting all who call on his name (read also Acts 10:34-35; Romans 10:9-13).
James gives a specific example about favoritism in action, showing that there is no room for discrimination in God’s kingdom.
He adds, “If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself,’ you are doing right.”
We must not miss this: “Loving our neighbors” means accepting one another!
We accept others when we make room at our table or in our circle of friends for someone we may not know.
It’s more than being friendly.
Jesus said, “Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me” (Matthew 10:40).
Jesus identified with people who were poor, hungry, strangers, sick, and in prison. (read also Matthew 25:34-40)
We must do this too.
Loving one another means getting involved in the lives of others—as messy or as unwelcome as that may be.
It could involve inviting someone to join a Bible study at your home.
It could even be uncomfortable.
But you can do so, remembering that few are offended by Jesus.
Accepting one another as Jesus did honors God and brings rejoicing in heaven.
To whom can you show God’s love today?
Christians in Authority Who Play Favorites
God emphasizes in Ephesians 6:7-9 how He looks at showing partiality between people, especially in situations where some may believe they’re justified in treating individuals differently because of their various positions in life.
Sadly there are Christian leaders, bosses, parents who leave their Christianity at the door, believing they are in the right to play favorites at home or work.
But God calls us all to serve one another, regardless of rank or position in life.
Ephesians 6:7-9 New International Version
7 Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not people, 8 because you know that the Lord will reward each one for whatever good they do, whether they are slave or free.
9 And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him.
Unfortunately, many humans, including Christians, struggle with wanting to feel more important than others.
Rooted in sin, Philippians 2:3 urges us to “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
Overcoming Partiality
So how do we live a life free from partiality?
Scripture provides direction on how to overcome the tendency to play favorites.
1. Ask God for Direction
When tempted, look to God for help.
Proverbs 3:5-8 Amplified Bible
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Trust in and rely confidently on the Lord with all your heart
And do not rely on your own insight or understanding.
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[a]In all your ways know and acknowledge and recognize Him,
And He will make your paths straight and smooth [removing obstacles that block your way].
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Do not be wise in your own eyes;
Fear the Lord [with reverent awe and obedience] and turn [entirely] away from evil.
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It will be health to your body [your marrow, your nerves, your sinews, your muscles—all your inner parts]
And refreshment (physical well-being) to your bones.
2. Freely Received, Freely Give what was Freely Given
Freely give because God has freely given us all things (Romans 8:32), not based on who someone is or isn’t, but because it pleases God.
Proverbs 3:27 encourages, “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act.”
3. Sacrificial Transformation, Spiritual Renewal of our Thoughts
Romans 12:1-5 Amplified Bible
Dedicated Service
12 [a]Therefore I urge you, [b]brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies [dedicating all of yourselves, set apart] as a living sacrifice, holy and well-pleasing to God, which is your rational (logical, intelligent) act of worship. 2 And do not be conformed to this world [any longer with its superficial values and customs], but be [c]transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you].
3 For by the grace [of God] given to me I say to everyone of you not to think more highly of himself [and of his importance and ability] than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment, as God has apportioned to each a degree of faith [and a purpose designed for service]. 4 For just as in one [physical] body we have many parts, and these parts do not all have the same function or special use, 5 so we, who are many, are [nevertheless just] one body in Christ, and individually [we are] parts one of another [mutually dependent on each other].
Paul’s urging of each of us to offer our bodies as living sacrifices is based on Christ’s ultimate act of service and ultimate act of sacrifice for all of our sake.
Baptized believers, transformed and renewed, living sacrifices serve because they’re steadfast immovable followers of Jesus, who served by giving his life.
Yet, as one pessimist I know put it, “The problem with living sacrifices is that they’re always crawling off the altar.”
Being a living sacrifice, with Christ as our supreme example, calls for sincere commitment to serve faithfully, selflessly and no matter what, to not give up.
Healthy worship and prayer life, Healthy family life, healthy church family life, means serving the all members of the family by doing whatever it is we do best.
Healthy church family life means freely serving fellow members of the body of believers with the gifts God has entrusted to us.
It means sacrificing biases, prejudices, valuing to the utmost, service to one another because together we form a body belonging to God and to each other.
Paul put it simply: “As Christ’s body, each member belongs to all the others.”
Intersecting Faith and Life:
Hebrews 13:1-2 English Standard Version
Sacrifices Pleasing to God
13 Let brotherly love continue. 2 Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Ask God today to reveal to you opportunities how to be genuinely Christ-like impartial and to reveal to other neighbors any ways you’ve been practicing it.
When confronting an un-neighborly situation where you can choose how you respond to people, ask God to lead you and to transform you and to renew your thoughts towards heavenly things, lean on His understanding over your own.
You simply never know what difference you would make in another’s journey.
But believe that God already knows what difference you absolutely did make!
In the name of God the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,
Let us Pray,
Oh, Lord, we often fall into determining someone’s value based on their wealth. Their wealth tells us nothing of their heart or their love for you. Help us not to insult the poor and elevate the rich. We pray that you will help us reach out to others without selfish motives like James addresses here. Help us not to disregard those in humble circumstances in order to try and elevate ourselves with those who show their disdain for you and treat others badly. You have called us to honor you with whatever you have blessed us with, and at the same time you call us not to play favorites. Help us to have humble hearts, to follow your example of loving all and not judging a person by their economic status or what they can do for us. In the One who is the richest of all and yet humbled himself on the cross for our sake – Amen!
Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Ghost; as it was in the beginning; is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen, Amen.








