How Can I Be Faithful When I am Struggling With Discontentment? Ecclesiastes 2:20-25

Ecclesiastes 2:20-25 Easy-to-Read Version

20 So I became sad about all the work I had done. 21 People can work hard using all their wisdom and knowledge and skill. But they will die and other people will get the things they worked for. They did not do the work, but they will get everything. That makes me very sad. It is also not fair and is senseless.

22 What do people really have after all their work and struggling in this life? 23  Throughout their life, they have pain, frustrations, and hard work. Even at night, a person’s mind does not rest. This is also senseless.

24-25 There is no one who has tried to enjoy life more than I have. And this is what I learned: The best thing people can do is eat, drink, and enjoy the work they must do. I also saw that this comes from God.[a]

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Adeste Fideles! Laeti Triumphantes! Venite Adoremus! Dominum.

Gloria! In Excelsis Deo! Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia, Amen.

According to Winston Groom,

“Life is like a box of chocolate. You never know what you’re going to get.”

But what if you did?

What if life was always exciting and rewarding?

Could you still be happy?

What about pain?

Suffering? Heartache? Sadness?

Are those emotions essential to living completeness?

Are those emotions essential to living in a complete cycle of struggling

How would you grow?

How would we mature?

What would you learn from a life full of bliss?

What would we learn from a life full of struggling

Do you and I need to struggle at constantly struggling?

Do you and I need to struggle at living a life full of constant bliss?

Within all of this constant and moment to moment barrage of these choices and decisions, how do we remain faithful, what do we remain faithful to, who do we remain faithful to, when do we remain faithful to whatever and whoever it is we are supposed to remain faithful to?

Hmm.. you and I have much to think over, many choices and decisions to make.

Dealing With the Struggles of Life

Everyone faces struggles in life.

It can be as simple as a skinned knee at the playground, or it could be as hard, complex as being confronted by the issues of raising your growing children, growing in your marriage, career and financial choices leading from buying a home for your family, retirement, saving for the college education of children and even by our own, or that of a loved ones chronic life-threatening illness.

All too often we try to face these struggles alone and in private, thinking we have to ‘tough it out’ to get through.

Life’s struggles—they come in all flavors.

They come at the most unexpected times.

They interrupt plans and dreams.

Yet some are chosen!

What are your struggles and how do you cope with them?

For too many it is a struggle with health, such as diabetes or cancer—where the struggle can literally go on for years.

For parents it can be with the struggles of their children.

For some it is a struggle with beliefs and doubts and remaining faithful.

For too many it is a never ending struggle with housing, or finances, or finding a job—or just plain searching for justice and fairness and significant meaning.

Some struggles are thrust upon us and we resent their intrusion very much.

And then sometimes we say, Life’s not fair! 

Bad things happen: things that neither you or I didn’t choose; things neither you or I didn’t, don’t deserve.

And you know what?

That’s really difficult.

As our reading from Ecclesiastes teaches: One thing is for sure about life: we are absolutely guaranteed to have all measure of troubles at some point or another.

There’s no avoiding it.

There is no trying to avoided.

There is not enough bubble wrap in the world to wrap ourselves, our family and friends with to keep us 100% safe and 100% secure from all of life’s alarms.

I think there are two key factors that are essential for overcoming hard times:

  1. my attitude, and
  2. my support system.

Facing Problems in Our Lives

When you face problems in your life:

  • How do you react?
  • What is your attitude about the problem?
  • Are you a worrier?
  • Do you avoid the problem?

Picture the scene:

While walking downtown one hot summer afternoon, you see a crowd gathered before a street preacher, standing atop a soapbox with a megaphone in hand.

In that most unexpected of moments, subtly, suddenly Curiosity (temptation?) gets the better of you and you make the choice and the decision to move closer.

As you approach, you begin to “hear” and “listen” to his message:

Worried about sickness? Jesus is the healer. Worried about hardship? Jesus is the Prince of Peace. Worried about struggles with finances, job loss, or tragedy? Jesus says my yoke is easy and my burden light. I tell you that if you believe in Jesus, then all the worries, anxieties, and troubles of your life will disappear!”

Now, think about it as you are diligently hearing and listening to the words; If someone had publicly proclaimed this message to you, would you believe them?

How about if someone had privately proclaimed this message for your timely or not so timely consideration?

Is it a Word from God?

Is Jesus coming alongside of you and quietly whispering into your soul?

Is the Holy Spirit nudging your rib cage?

In our busyness, I think we all know that the above message, although sounding attractive, lacks a certain measure and degree of reality and believability to us.

As people of faith, we do recognize that our faith is not an escapist dream.

Faith is not an hallucination, illusion or a delusion which rips us away from the inescapable reality of our having to struggle with the fallen world around us.

As followers of Jesus, we are not immune from the struggle, from contending with the inevitable display of all of the imperfections of our life.

Our fallen world will naturally throw conflicts and crises upon us.

To deny this fact is to deny the very world in which we live.

To deny this fact would be to deny the existence of God, the works of God from Genesis 1:1 through Revelation 22:21 the final verse of the Bible.

Consider the opening verse of Genesis:

Genesis 1:1 Easy-to-Read Version

The Beginning of the World

1 God created the sky and the earth. At first,

Now consider the final verse of the Bible;

Revelation 22:21 Easy-to-Read Version

21 The grace of the Lord Jesus be with all people.

Everything started with God Creating.

In the end, the Grace of the Lord Jesus WILL BE with ALL people.

Jesus is clear about this reality.

He repeatedly tells his disciples that they will be led into times of trouble or persecution; they will witness crises in the heavens and on the earth and will be repeatedly and brutally persecuted and even put before governors and rulers.

Jesus plainly states that the disciples may even be put to death on account of their faith (Luke 21:8-19).

Jesus is honest about the times of struggle his disciples will face.

Furthermore, the history of the church testifies that this is, indeed, what the disciples struggled with and faced and what we will struggle with, have to face.

Given this, what does it mean to be faithful when we are going through a time of difficulty?

How might we respond to the difficulties of life with faithful witnesses?

Here are three things we might consider praying over, a choice to consider, a decision to consider making when these struggles are found on our doorstops.

1. Do Not Deny the Reality of the Struggle

Faith is never lived in the absence of struggle but in response to it.

This is the heart of the incarnation.

The bold and audacious claim of our faith is that God did not, does not, will not ever remain separated from the struggles of life. (Genesis 1:1 – Revelation 22:21)

Instead, in an act of inconceivable, radical love, God physically entered into the affairs of mankind, became incarnate, within our imperfect and fallen world.

God became flesh and entered the fullness of human life. (John 1:1-5)

The incarnation, however, makes no sense without the crucifixion.

Paul writes that “God demonstrates his love for us in this, while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

Jesus bore the full weight of the world’s struggle, conflict, rejection, and pain.

From literally the cradle to the cross, from cradle to the grave, Christians can be assured that the resurrected Lord has fully embraced the fullness of human life.

Following Jesus, therefore, isn’t about escaping the difficulties we go through.

We follow Jesus to the cross, which means that we sometimes contend with the fallenness of this world.

Jesus is clear, “In this world, you will have trouble” (John 16:33).

But Jesus is also clear about something even more critical to our struggles;

33 I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Our faith never keeps us immune from wars and rumors of wars, earthquakes, pestilences, or famines nor financial nor healthcare nor any other kind of crisis.

As Christian people, we are called into an imperfect world as agents of new life.

We are given the ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18).

Thus, we do a disservice to ourselves and others when we assume that the faithful response to the ills of the world is to deny their effect upon us.

We are not to run from our hurts or struggles but to acknowledge them.

Faith never masks the struggles of life; it speaks into them.

It is only as we recognize that the Lord stands with us amid the hardships we face that we can testify to Christ’s life-giving power.

Ultimately, faith pertains to real live life and the real live stuff we go through.

2. Proclaim the Good News

It is in the presence of our obstacles that we are to express our faith.

Jesus is honest about the disciples’ upcoming experiences. 

Yet Jesus also states “this will give you the opportunity to testify” (Luke 21:13).

During persecution and rejection, hardship and struggle, crisis of one kind or another, disciples of Jesus are called to “raise up,” bear witness to the gospel.

We bear witness to Jesus by proclaiming how our faith gives us the strength and perseverance to endure.

Paul’s confession, prayers over his thorn in his flesh, for example, is what gave him the opportunity to declare that only God’s grace is sufficient at all times. (2 Corinthians 12:7-10)

This is exactly what happened with the other disciples.

Their lives of witness, amid profound hardship and persecution moved the gospel throughout the world.

As people saw the effect of Jesus in the lives of the disciples, they began to explore the truth of the gospel in their own life.

The circumstances of our lives become the material for our faithful witness.

As followers of Jesus, we raise up to proclaim the presence of Christ as we have experienced and as we have received him.

“Come and hear…let me tell you what he has done for me,” says the psalmist (Psalm 66:16).

This is the cry of faith.

The call of our faith is never to deny the hardship of the world or to pretend it’s not there. Rather, we stand and declare the power of the gospel.

Ultimately, the reason we can proclaim the good news amid life’s difficulties is because we rest on the promise that “by your endurance you will gain your life” (Luke 21:19).

By leaning on our relationship with Jesus, we gain a deeper life than we could ever possibly imagine; we become mature and complete, not lacking anything (James 1:4).

Our eternal life isn’t based on a life without problems. It is based on a life in a relationship with Christ. It is that relationship that we proclaim above all else.

3. Be Boldly Faithful

Returning then to our original question, how might we respond in times of struggle, persecution, or hardship?

As followers of Jesus, we are called to be boldly faithful.

We trust that Christ will be with us no matter what we face.

After all, Jesus says that, amid all our trials and difficulties, we are to “raise our heads, because our redemption is drawing near” (Luke 21:28).

Jesus promises our full, total redemption, and in that promise, we have hope.

While the world in its fallenness may ebb and flow away, Jesus secures our futures.

Jesus stands with us regardless of what we may be experiencing.

Thus, we can stand firm in our faith, particularly because no matter what this world throws at us, it will never defeat our life in Christ Jesus.

So, if you are walking through a time of difficulty today, take this promise to heart: the structures of life might crumble around you, but you will remain.

The wealth of all of the nations may come to nothing, but you will survive.

The bastions of security and ease may all dry up, but you and I will endure.

Whatever you and I face in life, whatever discouragement or hardship you and I are, or will inevitably find ourselves walking through, by His resurrection, Jesus says it wont ever have the final word – in faith, we all stand in the power of God.

It All Comes Down To Our Attitude

God talks to us over and over in Scripture about the attitude he wants us to have in difficult times.

This attitude encompasses humility, trust, and joy.

First God calls us to humble ourselves. 

James 4:10 says, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.”

I don’t know if we’ve figured it out yet, but no matter how hard we try to control our life, stuff still happens.

Stuff that you didn’t choose, didn’t plan for, could not possibly plan for.

And some of it seems to be just too much to bear.

Admit that to God.

Don’t try to cast blame or point fingers.

Simply humble yourself and admit you need help.

Second, God calls us to entrust our problems to him.

Let him be the first friend you ‘call’ in times of trouble. 

1 Peter 5:7 says, “Cast all your anxiety on him for he cares for you.”

Nothing is too big or too small for God.

He loves you and wants to carry you through the hard times.

Third, God wants you and me to keep a positive outlook, and even somehow to quite deliberately and quite intentionally and purposely find joy in our trials. 

James 1:2-4 says:

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

Know that in and within and through every single one our trying times, God is forever with you (Psalm 121) and He, through Jesus is doing a great work in you.

To understand this, ask yourself:

  • What can I learn from this situation?
  • What have I learned about myself?
  • What am I learning about God?
  • Where has God been working in my life up to this point to prepare me and support me?

Believe it or not: Struggles Strengthen Us

There is joy to be had in knowing that hard times won’t last and you will come out of it stronger, wiser, and more mature.

When difficult times hit, remember that God works ALL things for the good of those who love him. (Romans 8:28)

God doesn’t make bad things happen.

That’s just part of being in this world.

But God can make good things come out of any situation.

Some questions to consider:

  • When you face problems in your life, how do you respond?
  • What is your attitude about the problem?
  • How do you move forward?
  • Do you turn to God for help?
  • Do you trust God to hear you and answer you?
  • Are you able to find joy in the midst of your troubles?

So the Word of God teaches that God offers help for those facing struggles.

Not all struggles are bad for us—we can learn some pretty valuable lessons.

Transformation Through Struggle

1 Peter 1:6-9 English Standard Version

In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory, obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls.

God’s empowerment for transformation often comes through struggle.

We may reach a point in our lives when we hurt so much that we have to change.

Our faith is refined by fire so that it may become as gold.

As the story goes of a man named Louis Braille;

Nine-year-old Louis was watching his father work with leather in his harness-making shop in nineteenth-century France.

“Someday, Father,” said Louis, “I want to be a harness maker, just like you.”

“Why not start now?” retorted his father.

He took a piece of leather and showed his son how to work with a hole puncher.

Excited, the boy began to work, but soon the hole puncher flew out of his hand and pierced his eye!

He lost sight in that eye immediately.

Later the other eye failed, and Louis was totally blind.

His life came to a standstill until his pain produced a world-changing idea.

Louis was sitting in the family garden, holding a pinecone.

As he ran his sensitive fingers over the layers of the cone, he could picture it clearly in his mind.

Suddenly he thought, “Why not create an alphabet of raised dots to enable sightless people to read?”

So Louis Braille opened a new world for the blind—all because of his pain.

In times of trouble I need to repeatedly, joyfully say, “God has brought me here, God will keep me in his love, and God will somehow make this trial a blessing.”

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray;

Psalm 121 The Message

121 1-2 I look up to the mountains;
    does my strength come from mountains?
No, my strength comes from God,
    who made heaven, and earth, and mountains.

3-4 He won’t let you stumble,
    your Guardian God won’t fall asleep.
Not on your life! Israel’s
    Guardian will never doze or sleep.

5-6 God’s your Guardian,
    right at your side to protect you—
Shielding you from sunstroke,
    sheltering you from moonstroke.

7-8 God guards you from every evil,
    he guards your very life.
He guards you when you leave and when you return,
    he guards you now, he guards you always.

Lord Almighty, we know that difficult circumstances produce spiritual growth. Use our trials to make our faith genuine and to honor and glorify your name. In Jesus,

Adeste Fideles! Laeti Triumphantes! Venite Adoremus! Dominum.

Gloria! In Excelsis Deo! Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia, Amen.

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When You Struggle with Self-Worth, Always Try Hard to Remember this: You Are Somebody Special to God!!! 

From my very earliest of years, I have learned so much from just watching the birds. I was raised by my father in the rural country surrounded by the woods, and we also had access to seven sizable ponds, so birds were frequent visitors. One in particular was a Great Blue Heron which would stop there every year. And even to this day, forty some years after leaving the country, it still does!

Watching these birds teaches me so much about God’s love and provision. A variety of birds visit our trees and our yard in Maryland, included are Robins, cardinals, orioles, blue jays, and hummingbirds.  When I study how far some of these birds travel each year, I marvel at how God sustains them throughout their migrations. It’s a joy to scatter sunflower seeds to help meet their needs.

I’ve also seen graceful herons and colorful wood ducks visit the nearby water ways where I live. A few times, a bald eagle has swooped over the lake to grab a fish for supper. In the winter, I regularly hear owls calling to one another in our woods. Each bird’s personality reflects a different aspect of God’s creativity.

All the birds I see or hear inspire me to praise God for the beauty of his creation.

Yet as wonderful as all of these species of birds are, they pale in comparison to the value and importance we people, God’s Children, have in God’s kingdom.

God, the Author and Creator of our life, through Jesus, affirmed our value with this verse: Matthew 6:26 Amplified 26 Look at the birds of the air; they neither sow [seed] nor reap [the harvest] nor gather [the crops] into barns, and yet your heavenly Father keeps feeding them. Are you not worth much more than they?

When You Struggle with Self-Worth, as all of humanity will from time to time, Pray! Always Try Hard to Remember this: You Are Somebody Special to God!!! 

Matthew 6:25-34 The Message

25-26 “If you decide for God, living a life of God-worship, it follows that you don’t fuss about what’s on the table at mealtimes or whether the clothes in your closet are in fashion. There is far more to your life than the food you put in your stomach, more to your outer appearance than the clothes you hang on your body. Look at the birds, free and unfettered, not tied down to a job description, careless in the care of God. And you count far more to him than birds.

27-29 “Has anyone by fussing in front of the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? All this time and money wasted on fashion—do you think it makes that much difference? Instead of looking at the fashions, walk out into the fields and look at the wildflowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? The ten best-dressed men and women in the country look shabby alongside them.

30-33 “If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don’t you think he’ll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.

34 “Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and do not get all worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.

The Word of God for the Children of God. Gloria! In Excelsis Deo! Alleluia! Amen.

Today, we are going to continue with the subject theme of “Who Am I,” but I believe it is time to discover who the Bible says we are. We have discovered who the Bible said the men of the bible were, but what does the Bible say about me?

Have you ever felt like a failure in life? Have you ever experienced insecurity? Some are insecure about your appearance, your abilities, your personality, your life, your choices? Have you felt unloved and worthless? Have you ever said the following words: “I am not attractive? I can’t do all the things that person can do. I am not good enough. Nothing good ever happens in my life. I am a failure.”

If your mind is filled or being overwhelmed with thoughts of worthlessness, shame, embarrassment and low self-esteem, valuelessness, then it is time this day to address all of that perceived insecurity. Some may ask; “how do I get rid of insecurity that has been there my whole life?” If you have ever felt that way, you need to listen to the messages for the next few weeks, because the only way we can address all those feelings is by realizing that WE are God’s most prized possession! If God had to choose the finest thing that He has ever created – He would choose you and me! We are somebody extraordinarily special to God!

Those thoughts and feelings of being worthless and devalued surround millions of people around the globe and they are the very worst kind of lies from the devil aimed at getting you so down on yourself that you will never experience God’s abundant best for your life. These thoughts try to get you to feel you are just not or never will be “good enough,” so why would God ever want to bless me?” God does not have one child who is not good enough to receive His love.

There are a whole lot of people who never learn how to enjoy victories in their lives because of such low self-esteem. Jesus said that we are to love one another even as we love ourselves. If you don’t like YOU, how are you ever going to like someone else? Low self-esteem is a result of a lack of knowledge, a lack of what I call “GOD-ESTEEM!”. I am absolutely convinced that the core reason so many Christians live way below their privileges as a child of God is because they don’t know that they are blessed and highly favored of the Lord. My favorite saying is, “I’m healthy, wealthy, wise, blessed and highly esteemed, favored of the Lord!!!”

AS WE STRUGGLE WITH OUR SELF-WORTH

We often spend too much of our time focusing on and prioritizing, losing sight of just exactly and exactingly, how absolutely valuable we are to God. Many of us see easily all of the most beautiful and valued things in God’s creation and in other people. Yet we somehow will refuse to value ourselves in light of how God 100% loves us. Some of us get stuck, struggle with feelings of low self-worth.

“Gee whiz, I have this physical or mental health challenge”, “I have a different standard of acceptability amongst my fellow human beings.” “My value and my self-worth are automatically assigned to me differently.” “As mankind assigns me my value, my self-worth, it automatically becomes my standard of living.”

If you struggle with any of these and similar sounding thoughts of self-worth, let Jesus’ words bring you comfort today. Look at the birds outside your window today, consider how wonderfully, automatically, God cares for them. Then pray about how much more he cares for you every day. How valuable you are to him. How much more could you value yourself when you realize, come to experience, echelons far above mankind’s standard of judgement IS God’s standard of care?

Isaiah 61:10-11 English Standard Version

10 I will greatly rejoice in the Lord;
    my soul shall exult in my God,
for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation;
    he has covered me with the robe of righteousness,
as a bridegroom decks himself like a priest with a beautiful headdress,
    and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.
11 For as the earth brings forth its sprouts,
    and as a garden causes what is sown in it to sprout up,
so the Lord God will cause righteousness and praise
    to sprout up before all the nations.

As a change of pace, consider the greatest plans and purposes God has for you, in comparison to birds. Then take the risk and take one giant sized baby step out in a bolder more confident, greater faith, trusting in the value and worth which Jesus places on you, rather than choosing a negative thought pattern.

As you meditate on the truth of God’s Word from the Gospel of Matthew, you can begin to see your great value in God’s eyes. You can overcome feelings of low self-worth when you believe Jesus says you are greatly valuable to him. Slowly, and I believe surely and genuinely, those thoughts can be case aside into the vast, immeasurable expanse and depths of God’s great Sea of Forgetfulness!

CELEBRATE GOD DAILY EXACTLY AS GOD IS DAILY CELEBRATING YOU!!!

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit, PRAY!

Let us set aside what we perceive and believe to be our value is to the world,

Psalm 8 Names of God Bible

Psalm 8

For the choir director; on the gittith;[a] a psalm by David.

Yahweh, our Adonay, how majestic is your name throughout the earth!

Your glory is sung above the heavens.[b]
From the mouths of little children and infants,
    you have built a fortress against your opponents
        to silence the enemy and the avenger.

When I look at your heavens,
    the creation of your fingers,
    the moon and the stars that you have set in place—
        what is a mortal that you remember him
            or the Son of Man that you take care of him?
        You have made him a little lower than yourself.
        You have crowned him with glory and honor.
        You have made him rule what your hands created.
        You have put everything under his control:
            all the sheep and cattle, the wild animals,
            the birds, the fish,
            whatever swims in the currents of the seas.

Yahweh, our Adonay, how majestic is your name throughout the earth!

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