When We Need a Friend. Growing in Our Friendship with the Holy Spirit. Genesis 14:13-16

Prayer to the Holy Spirit

Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of Your faithful and kindle in us the fire of Your love.  Send forth Your Spirit and we shall be created.  And You shall renew the face of the earth. O, God, Who by the light of the Holy Spirit did instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by the same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever enjoy Your consolations. ​Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Holy Spirit, please become my best friend. I will submit to Your will. I will ask for Your input and wait for Your guidance. I will listen for Your voice and trust You as You speak to me. Amen.

Genesis 14:13-16 The Message

13-16 A fugitive came and reported to Abram the Hebrew. Abram was living at the Oaks of Mamre the Amorite, brother of Eshcol and Aner. They were allies of Abram. When Abram heard that his nephew had been taken prisoner, he lined up his servants, all of them born in his household—there were 318 of them—and chased after the captors all the way to Dan. Abram and his men split into small groups and attacked by night. They chased them as far as Hobah, just north of Damascus. They recovered all the plunder along with nephew Lot and his possessions, including the women and the people.

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Adeste Fideles! Laeti Triumphantes! Venite Adoremus! Dominum.

Gloria! In Excelsis Deo! Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia, Amen.

On Those “Rare” Occasions When We Need a Friend

The Holy Spirit would drive one thing home to our hearts through Abram’s experiences in this passage.

We do not lead our Christian lives in isolated seclusion—we are each members of one another, the Body of Christ, and in circumstances of this nature, one Christian can often be the means of deliverance of a weaker brother or sister.

From our text, there was nothing Abram could do to deliver Lot from Sodom.

Sodom represented an inward choice in Lot’s heart to live in the materialistic, sensualized atmosphere of Sodom.

If a child of God chooses to be materialistic, sensual, commercial, and greedy for things of the world, not much can be done for him or her.

Only Lot could take himself out of Sodom.

But from this circumstance that threatened Lot’s very life and liberty, Abram’s heart and soul and his personal resources were amply sufficient through prayer.

Admitting To One Another Our Need For a Friend

James 5:16-18 The Message

16-18 Make this your common practice: Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you can live together whole and healed. The prayer of a person living right with God is something powerful to be reckoned with. Elijah, for instance, human just like us, prayed hard that it wouldn’t rain, and it didn’t—not a drop for three and a half years. Then he prayed that it would rain, and it did. The showers came and everything started growing again.

James 5:16b tells us, The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. 

There is another translation of that verse which I have read that is excellent: 

The earnest, hot-hearted prayer of a righteous man releases great power. 

That is certainly the case in this incident.

The prayer offered in faith, we are told in the same chapter of James, will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up (James 5:15).

Many have been puzzled by this verse, but if we carefully read and study the context, we see clearly that the source of the affliction here is one which has arisen because a child of God has become involved, entangled in deliberate sin.

Such a one is to call upon the elders of the church together and confess his or her faults, and then the prayer of faith of the righteous will save the sick, and the Lord shall intercede, through the Holy Spirit and raise him or her up again.

It is indeed deep, wonderful experience, this power of prayer for someone else.

The history of the church is replete with instances of such deliverances through faithful prayer.

A wise and experienced ministry leader, speaking to a small group on the tough subject of intercessory prayer, addressed the matter of overwhelming sin that so grips the human heart as to enslave the life and frustrate all activity for God.

He gave some very wise words of advice. 

Perhaps some younger Christian, he said, may find themselves in such a circumstance, and the things they are doing is so shameful that they cannot bring himself to confess it publicly; then let him seek out some older man of God, someone he can trust, and asking the Holy Spirit into the fellowship, lay the whole matter before that person and ask him to pray concerning this. 

It is wise counsel, indeed.

When Lot could not possibly help himself, Abram, separated in heart from the wildly sinful Sodom-like attitudes that rendered Lot so powerless, was able to lay hold of God and affect a great and mighty witness, testimony of deliverance.

Friendship with the Holy Spirit

As believers in God, we have been given the Holy Spirit as a Helper, Teacher, Friend, and seal for the promised inheritance of eternal life with God.

His presence, guidance, and wisdom in our lives are our greatest gifts while here on earth.

Through him we have access to direct connection with our heavenly Father.

Through him we receive spiritual gifts to empower us.

And through Him we are able to bear the incredible fruit of abundant life.

Open your heart and mind to all that the Holy Spirit would give you, show you, and lead you to in these days and this week and the weeks and months ahead.

Psalm 25:14 The Message

14 God-friendship is for God-worshipers;
They are the ones he confides in.

In friendship with the Holy Spirit we begin to experience a sense of wholeness and joy unattainable through any other relationship or aspect of life.

Rapid and wonderful transformation results when you discover the wealth of love that comes with continual, real friendship with the living God.

In friendship with God comes peace, security, honesty, healing, and freedom.

As you live your life in step with the Spirit, you experience what Adam and Eve experienced as they walked with God himself in the Garden of Eden.

You discover the vast reservoir of love, affection, and perfect help that’s available to you in the Holy Spirit.

Open your heart today to receive a fresh revelation of God’s desire for friendship with you through the Holy Spirit.

Jesus says in John 15:15, “No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.” 

God longs for an eternal friendship with all of His Children.

And through the Holy Spirit we have a continual connection with God available to us.

The Spirit desires to do life with you.

He wants to guide you, speak to you, and love you.

He wants to satisfy your longing for relationship and can do so in greater ways than you can imagine.

John 14:16-17 says, “And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.”

By God’s grace we have been filled with God himself.

We have dwelling with us the same Spirit who authored Scripture, raised Christ from the dead, empowered the disciples, and in the beginning, hovered over the waters at the creation of all things.

And Scripture says that He longs to help you!

Jesus calls Him the “Helper.”

How incredible is the grace of our God to offer us relationship with the Holy Spirit!

How great is his love that God would send his Son to the Cross at Calvary to die that we each might have abundant life for all of eternity, including right now!

So, how do we grow in friendship with the Holy Spirit?

How do we allow him to satisfy our desire for relationship? 

Psalm 25:14 says, “The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him, and he makes known to them his covenant.” 

And Ephesians 4:30 says, “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.” 

Friendship with the Holy Spirit starts like any other true friendship.

We must respect, love, and make time for the Holy Spirit.

We must learn what He likes and dislikes.

And we must apologize when we do something that grieves Him.

The Holy Spirit has feelings like any other person.

But He is also full of grace, mercy, forgiveness, and unconditional love.

Friendship with Him comes about by following his leadership, making time to ask him how he feels about things, and following his guidance away from a lifestyle of sin into the righteousness available to you through Christ Jesus.

The Holy Spirit is waiting right now to guide you into friendship with him.

He’s excited about the idea of pouring out His love and affections on you.

He longs to lead you away from the sins that hurt you and grieve him.

And He longs to guide us toward a life of walking with Him in relationship.

Spend time in fervent prayer being filled with the Holy Spirit afresh and making room to explore, discover the enlightening reality of His presence in our lives.

In the name of God, the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Guided Prayer:

1. Meditate on God’s desire for friendship with you.

“No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.” John 15:15

“The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him, and he makes known to them his covenant.” Psalm 25:14

2. Ask the Holy Spirit to pour His love out on you. 

Ask him to make the reality of his nearness known to you.

Be filled with desire to live your life in relationship with this real, tangible God who loves you.

3. Ask the Holy Spirit what he likes and doesn’t like. 

Open your life and let him speak to you about whatever is causing you trouble.

Ask Holy Spirit how He feels about our relationships, situations, thoughts, and “eternal” perspectives we have – the Holy Spirit loves to speak to us, to help us.

“And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.” John 14:16-17

Often we separate out what we think God cares about and what just seems to be normal, worldly parts of life.

But God wants to be involved in every part of our lives.

He wants to be there for us in everything we do.

He wants to fill us with grace and joy to do all the things set before us, from taking out the trash to washing dishes to leading thousands of people in prayer.

Are we able to aid and and assistance unto our brothers or sisters in Christ with helpful counsel from the Word of God and with fellowship and fervent prayers?

Have we engaged in faithful fervent prayer for those in sinful circumstances?

Invite, allow the Holy Spirit to come in and work in every area of your life and may we discover the wealth of knowledge, love your God has to share with us.

Prayer to the Holy Spirit

Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of Your faithful and kindle in us the fire of Your love.  Send forth Your Spirit and we shall be created.  And You shall renew the face of the earth. O, God, Who by the light of the Holy Spirit did instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by the same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever enjoy Your consolations. ​Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Adeste Fideles! Laeti Triumphantes! Venite Adoremus! Dominum.

Gloria! In Excelsis Deo! Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia, Amen.

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Sin Tattered Rags to Righteousness: Praying For Our Unsaved Loved Ones. Colossians 3:12-14

Out From Under Sins Rags, Changing Our Spiritual Clothes

As Christians, we can express our heartfelt sincerity in following our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ by “dressing the part.”

It damages the cause of Christ when we say we are Christians but do not live or walk or move as if we are – it’s like working a construction job in a prom dress.

We are not going to be, nor can we ever be as effective at our job if we are not wearing the appropriate clothes. 

In our pre-Jesus life, we wear our rags, like a hobo, we carry a bag of rags over our shoulders, being habits and sins that prevent us from growing in Christ.

Apostle Paul urges us to move away from hobo, to change our spiritual clothes.

Colossians 3:12-14 The Message

12-14 So, chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, discipline. Be even-tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offense. Forgive as quickly and completely as the Master forgave you. And regardless of what else you put on, wear love. It’s your basic, all-purpose garment. Never be without it.

The Word of God for the Children of God.

Adeste Fideles! Laeti Triumphantes! Venite Adoremus! Dominum.

Gloria! In Excelsis Deo! Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia, Amen.

Out From Under Sins Rags, Changing Our Spiritual Clothes

As Christians, we can express our heartfelt sincerity in following our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ by “dressing the part.”

It damages the cause of Christ when we say we are Christians but do not live or walk or move as if we are – it’s like working a construction job in a prom dress.

We are not going to be, nor can we ever be as effective at our job if we are not wearing the appropriate clothes. 

In our pre-Jesus life, we wear our rags, like a hobo, we carry a bag of rags over our shoulders, being habits and sins that prevent us from growing in Christ.

Apostle Paul urges us to move away from hobo, to change our spiritual clothes.

Some of those old clothes are impurity, lust, greed, attitudes, and speech, which are inconsistent with our new life in Jesus.

Paul teaches these things represent the inappropriate clothing of a former life.

But there’s hope.

The Apostle Paul does not leave us with a short “sticky note” or a pages and pages long list of what not to wear, but he does give us a list of what to wear.

It’s a dress code for the Christian life.

At first, putting these new clothes on won’t feel natural.

Their seams might rub a little, or we might feel overdressed.

But as time passes and we keep choosing them, they begin to feel more comfortable until they become a wardrobe staple. 

We can create a spiritual capsule wardrobe by choosing attitudes that represent the work Jesus does in our hearts.

These clothes won’t ever tear along the seams or wear out in the seat and will always be appropriate for whatever circumstance we face.

Compassion is a Christlike sensitivity and heartfelt sympathy for the welfare of others, others being our saved, unsaved neighbors whatever the circumstance.

Kindness is a friendly attitude that ultimately seeks to meet the needs of others.

Humility recognizes our weaknesses and acknowledges the power of God in us.

Gentleness is a subtle yielding, then surrendering of our will unto God which we unabashedly reveal in our gentle response to others, especially when provoked. 

Patience is our ability to bear up under the upper most unpleasant of situations without giving in to retaliation.

Forbearance is our ability to set our emotions aside, to give ourselves over to the ministry, works of the Holy Spirit, bear with someone else’s weaknesses.

Forgiveness releases our offenders from any obligation.

Love unifies these spiritual clothes, becomes the belt which binds, which invites, which fastens and securely holds everything up in the right place.

Paul writes of other items for our spiritual wardrobe in Galatians, and the Bible references other character qualities, making up our spiritual wardrobe.

For example, we can wear a wardrobe of disciplined prayer, garments of peace, thankfulness, generosity, rejoicing, the message of life and truth being – Jesus.

These fill our hearts, change our lives, and influence our environment.

A new wardrobe for Christ followers is a must to reveal the indescribable length and breadth, and depth and height of our God’s love to our world, to each other.

The Value of Our Praying for Our Unsaved Loved Ones

2 Peter 3:8-13 New King James Version

But, beloved, do not forget this one thing, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward [a]us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.

The Day of the Lord

10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night, in which the heavens will pass away with a great noise, and the elements will melt with fervent heat; both the earth and the works that are in it will be [b]burned up. 11 Therefore, since all these things will be dissolved, what manner of persons ought you to be in holy conduct and godliness, 12 looking for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be dissolved, being on fire, and the elements will melt with fervent heat? 13 Nevertheless we, according to His promise, look for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.

Everything we do, everything we seek to do for the sake of God’s Kingdom will and should always begin with a search of God’s Word and prayer for God’s will.

Praying for the Unsaved, Entering the Harvest Fields

John 10:14-18 The Message

14-18 “I am the Good Shepherd. I know my own sheep and my own sheep know me. In the same way, the Father knows me and I know the Father. I put the sheep before myself, sacrificing myself if necessary. You need to know that I have other sheep in addition to those in this pen. I need to gather and bring them, too. They’ll also recognize my voice. Then it will be one flock, one Shepherd. This is why the Father loves me: because I freely lay down my life. And so I am free to take it up again. No one takes it from me. I lay it down of my own free will. I have the right to lay it down; I also have the right to take it up again. I received this authority personally from my Father.”

Disciplining our lives for service to the Kingdom of God, Praying to the Lord of the Harvest for revealing to us unsaved loved ones is not for the faint of heart.

It can, and definitely will be challenging to discipline our life, be persistent in prayer, especially when any of our neighbor’s life may be on a treacherous path.

Sometimes, when it comes to our walk with the Lord, it’s all we can do to keep our heads above water.

How, where can we find the consolation, compassion, patience, forbearance, perseverance to keep fighting in study, in prayer for our neighbor’s salvation?

Like any situation we face, we should always go to the truth of God’s Word.

His truth sets us free and equips us to stay in the fight. 

However, on any given day we generally come to God in prayer, strong, weak, discouraged, or hopeful, remember that God hears our prayers (Psalm 18:6).

Psalm 18:6 The Message

A hostile world! I call to God,
    I cry to God to help me.
From his palace he hears my call;
    my cry brings me right into his presence—
    a private audience!

The Courage for our Praying that prayer from Psalm 18:6 for own situation to strip off ourselves the filthy rags we wear and lug around over our shoulders?

The Courage to go not back to our closet burdened and full of our tattered rags?

But to stand still long enough in the Presence of God, the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, to be cleansed, clothed, by the Gospel truth of Christ’s own life blood?

by God, the Father, Christ His Son and the Holy Spirit – our personal tailors?

To be fitted for service in God’s Kingdom, our new garments of Righteousness?

We can begin by reminding ourselves that God is the One who created them, God is the one who measured our lives, found us wanting but yet cut the cloth.

To walk into the Harvest Fields … engaging and interacting with the unsaved?

To not turn around after a few steps fearful of getting our new clothes filthy?

We do not always “know them personally” or even “know them at all.”

But to remember that God knows God’s own Children far better than we do!

God, their Creator absolutely knows exactly where they are when we do not.

God knows exactly every single one of their thoughts, every single one of their intentions, and every single expression of lifestyle they are struggling to live in.

Exactly nothing is hidden from God and the Word of God (Hebrews 4:13). 

Hebrews 4:12-13 The Message

12-13 God means what he says. What he says goes. His powerful Word is sharp as a surgeon’s scalpel, cutting through everything, whether doubt or defense, laying us open to listen and obey. Nothing and no one can resist God’s Word. We can’t get away from it—no matter what.

James 5:16-18  The Message says, 

16-18 Make this your common practice: Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you can live together whole and healed. The prayer of a person living right with God is something powerful to be reckoned with. Elijah, for instance, human just like us, prayed hard that it wouldn’t rain, and it didn’t—not a drop for three and a half years. Then he prayed that it would rain, and it did. The showers came and everything started growing again.

Did you read the last part?

The prayers of a righteous man avail much! 

1 Peter 3:12 NKJV says, “For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are open to their prayers, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”

If we seek the Lord’s will for our life and partner with Him to live as He calls us to live as His disciples, we can take the greatest comfort in knowing that God is attentive to our prayers. 

In Luke 18:1-8, Jesus shares a parable with His disciples to discipline themselves and to embolden and inspire and encourage them never ever stop praying.

A widow went to an unjust judge begging for justice from her adversary.

Eventually, the judge relented because of her discipline and her persistence.

Verse 7 says, “And shall God not avenge His own elect who cry out day and night to Him, though He bears long with them?”

But Jesus asked if He would find faith when the Son of Man came.

There is no doubt praying as a discipline is an act of faith.

Let’s be determined to be disciplined, be persistent and be faithful in prayer. 

Samuel Chadwick, a Wesleyan Minister, said,

“The one concern of the devil is to keep Christians from praying. He fears nothing from prayerless studies, prayerless work, and prayerless religion. He laughs at our toil, mocks at our wisdom, but trembles when we pray.”

Rags to Righteousness, Intersecting Faith and Life: 

There are many pressures we face on a day-to-day basis.

Like a grapefruit or a lemon or an orange that releases its juice when squeezed, so do we when the tattered and torn rags of our lives grips us a little too tightly.

What comes out depends on whether we’ve exchanged the old clothes of our pre-surrendered life to Jesus for the new ones in our redeemed life in Christ.

If we are struggling with impatience toward a neighbor, practice forbearance.

Break the list of “new clothes” down and slowly concentrate on one at a time.

The beautiful result will be that we will soon learn how, when, where and why we wear them all as we sincerely pursue our relationship with our Jesus Christ.

In the name of God the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,

Let us Pray,

Dear Gracious Heavenly Father, 

2 Corinthians 6:2 says,” ‘In an acceptable time I have heard you, and in the day of salvation I have helped you.’ Behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.”

Father, we are lifting our unsaved loved ones to you. Please soften their hearts. We ask that You take their hearts of stone and turn them into a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). Please open their minds to understanding (Luke 24:45). We pray You would grant us opportunities to speak with them, but far more importantly that we would continue to come to you in prayer for them. 

God, You are not slack concerning your promises but are longsuffering toward us, unwilling that any should perish. Father, we ask that Your lovingkindness draw them to you (Romans 2:4). When we see them and interact with them, let it be Your love for them that they see. Help us be patient, kind, humble, and seek our loved one’s best. Help us to believe all things, hope all things, and endure all things. Help us to love them like You have loved us (1 Corinthians 13:4-8). Lord, we cannot do any of this apart from You. Please extend to us Your Grace, Please give us Your strength. We love you. Thank you for timely hearing our prayers and being all we need in every situation. We commit our loved ones to Your loving and capable hands. Amen! 

Adeste Fideles! Laeti Triumphantes! Venite Adoremus! Dominum.

Gloria! In Excelsis Deo! Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia, Amen.

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